unicornsnrainbows wrote:

I understand what you're going through, as I'm in a similar position.  My only advice is to keep up your practice, live from the end, and find ways to love and adore your life whether or not you ever see him again.  Flow as much love to yourself as you do to him.   And when you think of him, imagine his heart opening up like a floodgate, and a gushing river of love flowing from his heart straight to you.  Put yourself on the pedestal.  Tell yourself that he is crazy about you over and over.  Stop worrying about what you did or didn't do wrong.  If you were loving and friendly to him, that's never wrong.  He's the one with the problem.  So, create an updated version of him without the problem, a version who just can't get enough of you, a version that you almost have to tell to cool down a bit and give you some space to breathe!

I just did this like you said with the floodgate of love I did from him to me and me to him. And it felt so intense but so lovely I cried. Thank you. 💗

I believe anything is possible for other relationships, I'm hoping that love from my heart can clear the blocks for believing it for myself. I want this love 💕

Noeshe wrote:

rosetinted wrote:

Yeah, you're very right, I think I need to utilise this forum more for talking with like minded people about this stuff. They just see me sad and get frustrated (which is why I usually manage to hide those down days) I'm definitely going to be more secretive about how I'm feeling. I think they just want me to move on, I'm not deliberately not doing that, I'm just a lone wolf kind of girl anyway! Always have been 🐺

 
I only talk about it here too. In the beginning I made the mistake of telling friends about me and my poi having a bit of contact again (i never explained how), and now and then they still ask how things are going, that it is time that I move on, that if he has not come back by this time he never will, that I should just go on a dating site....blablablah...

I just don't bring the subject up anymore and when someone asks, I say we are dong well and change the subject as soon as possible 😄

Exactly the same here!!!! I manifested him back in the end of summer then as soon as they knew it's been constant questions and probably lead to me pushing him too much before he was ready making him now dart off again.

I text him yesterday after the call saying great talking to you and how I missed our friendship (we've been friends and occasional lovers for 8 years) but I finally revealed how I felt before he left for the summer. I have a super long thread about it somewhere in the depths of this board lol.

He would be flirty then pull away, joke he was in love with me then ignore me. So now him implying he has no feelings... it's kind of really bloody annoying.

I need to digest the hurt I feel that he HAS ignored my messages deliberately for the past few months. I'm a very sensitive girl and he knows that will hurt me.

And to 'protect me' because he can't give me what I want... like he has no feelings... 😡 ok I need to reread all the replies here over and over for the next few days lol off I go 💗

Confidence crusher is not a perfume I like wearing.

Lots of love thank you for being there for me
X

Noeshe wrote:

rosetinted wrote:

He would be flirty then pull away, joke he was in love with me then ignore me. So now him implying he has no feelings... it's kind of really bloody annoying.

 
Years ago when I was studying I was in love with my teacher, who was only a few years older than me. One day he told one of my classmates that he was afraid that I was in love with him and he had no feelings for me whatsoever. The classmate told me, I said that that was true, but that he had no need to be afraid, because I would not do anything with those feelings (if only I had known about PW back then, hahahaha!)
Anyway....many years later when I was thinking about that time, and the way we used to talk, the way he used to look at me and sometimes put his hand on my shoulder for a second, the panic in his eyes when he came looking for me after I went to the bathroom during class and stayed away a bit longer....I realised: oh my god, he was in love with me too!

Now, that was an akward situation and I can understand why he reacted the way he did, but men do and say stupid things to avoid feeling vulnerable and to avoid having to admit they are as unsecure as women.

Someone should just invent a man-translator...

This is interesting... hahaha that poor guy. That would have been quite the scandal but I would have been here for it! 😂👏

Disney has a lot to answer for also with the way I expect men to behave when in love lol. ;)

My parents were both teachers, retired now, and some poor teenage boy fell in love with her on her first  teaching job and was writing her love letters and following her home! Parents had to be called haha.

Plus my father pursued my mother for ages before she finally gave in, I guess it's just more expected for men to chase like that...

I'm not chasing... in the physical anymore.

Men say women are mysterious creatures but I truly believe as you say men are incredibly complex with matters of the heart.

So poo poo my friends who say I'm delusional.

X

Woodyluv wrote:

Happy Birthday  Rosetinted 💝  (In Advance). Just wanted to send you the love you deserve!  Stay focused on what you desire and pay no mind to what he says...  As you know with your power, it changes in an instant.  You Got This!  You have Goddess Power.  The Goddess doesn't worry about what HE says or does because she knows it's only what SHE says or does that counts.  He just needs to catch up!  So tell him RUN FORREST RUN!!

✌️&❤️

Oh my goodness! Thank you! Yknow guys I have to say, when I came on here this morning after a while of not being on the forum, I was desperate and felt like the world was ending, and you've already all turned me around in a day! If you guys can do that... (and I consider myself a tough case...) you can do anything! And I will always support you all in that.

Thank you loves
Xxx

Last edited by rosetinted (4/23/2017 7:17 pm)

unicornsnrainbows wrote:

rosetinted wrote:

unicornsnrainbows wrote:

That is great!  And this reminds me that I should do this right now...it's great practice whenever you start feeling the "missing" or any bit of anxiety.  Because they ARE feeling it, and you feel their love for you, too.

Also, your name reminds me of the Woodstock documentary, haha, me and my guy watched it ALLLLL the time. And about my birthday, last year was sadly when he told me he'd kissed another girl... worst birthday present ever... but this year,.. I pray or no, I know there's gonna be something good next week 💜🦋

I think you might've been responding to woodyluv, but regardless, I am SURE your birthday is going to be loads better this year!  Have faith.  
 

Oops yes haha my bad got carried away with all your lovely responses xxxx