Offline
UPDATE:
So these are the things that happened in March:
I saw her in person on the 12th of March and we both marched together. She stuck by me the whole time and we talked! A very good day!
I got a message from her at the end of March and she asked me if I had borrowed something of hers. The convo was short.
This was also in March.
Nothing of significance happened in April, except for a few signs here and there.
She posted a selfie I happened across on the Gram feed and I double tapped.
This was mid April.
But just yesterday, I received the notification that she had commented on my 3-4 day old selfie post! She'd said "Wow!"
I kinda anticipated it happening the night I posted it up, but thought no more of it as I was focused on Monday's date night.
It's interesting...while I am grateful it happened, my main focus is on the new person I'm seeing who somewhat reminds me of my old POI.
But as I have chosen the polyamorous route, my arms are always open to her coming back. I'm excited as I'm sure this month will have nice surprises whereever the pendulum swings! ^-^
Offline
Woodyluv wrote:
Yaayyyy!! You go Girl!👍😍
Thank you so much! I have an update! Way early this morning I asked how people were doing on Facebook and with her in mind, I was just curious as to who would answer.
So I went back to doing my hair, and like an hour later while having sudden worries about this upcoming summer and quickly quieting them, I looked over at my phone and saw a new notification for my post and then when I swiped down, it said that she had commented on my post!
And I've been feeling like she has been reaching out, because she hadnt heard from me in a minute. The selfie post I did was the first pic in like a month, which was like last Sunday. I did another pic this morning
The last one I posted up was in March before last Sunday, and the last time we spoke in PM was the end of last month.
We spoke briefly this morning, then she left and went to bed.
I had asked a question and it was after her going to bed and then she responded later while I was napping.
She was feeling down. "Eh", as she put it. Feeling undesireable and ugly and you know I didnt want to overstepping my boundaries but I wanted to tell her how pretty she is.
Anyway, I feel like things are on the up and up. Im curious to see what will happen from here on in. Will keep you all updated! Hope everyone is having a good day!
Offline
I think you can just tell her she's pretty, has beautiful eyes or nice hair or whatever. If I were feeling ugly I would probably not believe anyone telling me I am pretty 😉 but I would appreciate it!
With saying she is pretty, you are not admitting you want to move in and spend the rest of your life cuddling up with her, you are only giving her some much needed love and support.
Offline
Noeshe wrote:
I think you can just tell her she's pretty, has beautiful eyes or nice hair or whatever. If I were feeling ugly I would probably not believe anyone telling me I am pretty 😉 but I would appreciate it!
With saying she is pretty, you are not admitting you want to move in and spend the rest of your life cuddling up with her, you are only giving her some much needed love and support.
She did thank me, but still sounded like she was unsure. Next time if I get the chance, I will tell her that, frankly. To this day I wonder if she ever wondered why I stared at her so much...
We didnt talk much after that.
I sent her a chain message thingy that said she was one of my special people. No reply but thats okay. Her birthday is tomorrow, and while she said anyone could come in a FB post, should I come or should I let her invite me?
My main intention though was to just focus on finding jobs tomorrow though .
Last edited by princessgirl87 (5/07/2017 4:26 pm)