I've been doing PW on my ex for a few months now and I've seen some small successes. First one him coming back into my life and then him spending a lot of time with me etc. We hang out more than any ex couple I know lol
I took a PW break for about two weeks and started it again a few days ago and immediately noticed a good change in the ex. He had recently moved and was saying he was sad and lonely and wants me to come and spend a few nights with him to keep him company so I did. Things were great. Absolutely great. Tonight I decided to talk with him. Let him know how I feel about him still and that I want to maybe try this relationship again and I got shot down. He said he doesn't feel the same way. I asked if we will ever get s chance again and he said he doesn't want to answer that cause his answer could change in the future so I told him alright we'll forget about the future. How do you feel right now? And he said basically that there's no chance for us. It hurts. I cried for a bit and now I'm okay because my gut is still telling me we'll end up together. I can feel it ughhh.
Should I keep on with the PW and visualizing? Should I date this other guy I've been talking to in the meantime? Or would that mess things up. I don't want to throw away a 6 year relationship