mariaaa wrote:

Piper, that's not just an exaggeration. It's simply not true to say "every" thread. Can we be factual here, folks? I posted comments this evening on threads which seemed pertinent and of interest to me.

Regarding numerous successes: I believe there are variables that count toward degree of response from POI, such as if there is on-going contact and communication; if there is a pre-existing connection with the person, and of course, something that has been pointed out before, the will of the POI.
So, there isn't any viable way to prove that if a POI returns and resumes a relationship, even if he says he was lonely, miserable and missed you, that he was positively affected by remote suggestions. All of the aforementioned variables increase the odds that he will reconnect with you even without meditation, visualization, spells, or prayers. And, the lonely part can be quite convincing because men typically need the validation of a woman to feel worthy.
Contrarily, if he has moved on, written you off, has no desire for contact or communication; or if he was never truly emotionally or psychologically invested in his relationship with you to begin with, or it was brief and fleeting exposure; and if he became involved with another woman and is satisfied in his new relationship, all of these things will lessen the likelihood of his return.
Of course, this is not a hard and fast rule and there are exceptions, however I would remain skeptical of any woman's testimony of the marvelous effects of RS if she regained communication and relations with her POI, and attested to none of the former variables being present.
I have had previous positive results with remote influence, but only when I was in an active relationship with someone and their will to engage with me came into play.
For my most recent endeavor, however, there wasn't any communication or visual exposure; we didn't have any contact outside of his work; he became actively involved with another woman, and with whom he worked, I might add, where he saw and communicated with her daily; and therefore hasn't experienced that loneliness that often accompanies detachment.
With this recipe for out of sight...out of mind, it's not surprising my results were null and void.

I am freely expressing my point of view based on in depth and time-consuming experience. I have been listening and absorbing all of the persuasions as to the potency of RS, which is not an iron-clad method of manifestation, nor provides consistent results and shouldn't be advertised as such.
My preference is to report my experience honestly. Is that okay with you, chelseagurl?

This post makes sense. It is understandable that you had expectations and you are really hurt.But in the third book, she advises not to run behind guys whom you think will not respect you or make you happy.
Even if the technique does work and your poi contacts you, you will have to see if he has actually changed or are you attracting the same relationship back again before calling it a success.
I am not against or for this technique because I am still angry with my ex so I dont do this technique very often. But yes, when I read the first book I too was a little skeptical about how it can work 100% of the time. But in her later books, she has mentioned when should we do her techniques. If you read her books, you can see she really understands women and promotes & encourages us to be powerful & take charge of our lives..
You maybe right that this does not work always and sometimes people may not return but loa works in your favor always..but deep down are you forgiving your ex & ready to have him back? I am just saying this because I cant seem to forgive him completely yet. Yes I have moved on and I do the technique sometimes and I am sure it works on him, but he has chosen not to reach out to me yet.
That made me realize that I should not wait for him anymore, I should move on and if he does come back, he has to work towards the relationship. I really think you should read all her books as it is not just about attracting an ex back. She really gives some good advice to women for their greater good. I can understand your frustation but you just have to believe that you can easily attract someone way better. These are not just her techniques. All loa coaches and believers say the same thing which Lanie suggests. The difference is she explains it in a different way to help women and no other intention. She does not give false hope, read all her books and you will realize it!
In my personal opinion, I think it will work 100% if you love him unconditionally and love yourself first. I hope things work out for you