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    6/05/2017 8:46 am  #1

    Mikaela
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    Is it ok to date someone else while trying to get your ex back?

    Hello ladies!
    I've recently met another man, and we have so much fun together, I really like him.
    So I'm stuck and I don't know what to do. I feel this is not fair to him

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    6/05/2017 11:04 am  #2

    Sushi
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    Re: Is it ok to date someone else while trying to get your ex back?

    It happens very frequently that when you shift your focus off your ex and start looking at someone else that your ex finally comes back around. 

    6/05/2017 11:27 am  #3

    Mikaela
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    Re: Is it ok to date someone else while trying to get your ex back?

    You're right I read in one success story on the Secret TV that one way to get your ex back is to make the intention and then date someone else.

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    6/05/2017 1:16 pm  #4

    Avaelle
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    Re: Is it ok to date someone else while trying to get your ex back?

    It's not like you're in love with the new guy.  You're just seeing him and hanging out. 

    6/05/2017 2:30 pm  #5

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    Re: Is it ok to date someone else while trying to get your ex back?

    What about dating this other guy, and still visualizing your ex loving you unconditionally? Like, not caring about who you've been dating, but just happy to be back with you?

    6/05/2017 5:28 pm  #6

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    Re: Is it ok to date someone else while trying to get your ex back?

    You're right guys. Maybe I'm overthinking this. 
    For the time being I'm fine with things as they are. I'm just afraid of what will happen if they progress. I know he really likes me, he goes so out of his way. I feel like I'm leading him on. 

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    6/06/2017 7:55 pm  #7

    Lanie Stevens
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    Re: Is it ok to date someone else while trying to get your ex back?

    Mikaela wrote:

    You're right guys. Maybe I'm overthinking this. 
    For the time being I'm fine with things as they are. I'm just afraid of what will happen if they progress. I know he really likes me, he goes so out of his way. I feel like I'm leading him on. 

    You didn't start out in love with your ex! It is entirely possible the new guy will steal your heart and you will forget all about the ex that broke up with you. I would not worry about your ex finding out and not wanting you back because you have begun dating.   I think it's a good wake-up call he may not be "all that and a bag of chips"! If he expects you to still be crying about the breakup he is mistaken! :-)

    Big Hugs,  Lanie 

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