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Re: Advice on letting go
I feel ya on this one, years ago my ex broke up with me because he got involved with another woman we worked with. I have no good advice for you, this was years ago before I knew about PW etc. Even if I did know about it, I'd not have wanted my guy back. He cheated so I was done done and then done. I had to see them and hear everyone talking about them ... blah blahh ... I left the job. Best decision ever. Good luck. But if I'd offer anything, stay focussed on you. ❤
- Lanie Stevens
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Re: Advice on letting go
Stacie83 wrote:
I'll make it short. My poi is my ex fiancé. I have to see him everyday with his new girlfriend as we all work together. Need help/advice on letting go when I have to face them all the time.
That is difficult! I wish I had some wonderful advice to impart to you but I don't. If you still care for him I would use the technique and visualize the two of them getting more and more distant.
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Thank you for your reply lanie. Is it ok to visualise them breaking up?
I would visualize them growing more and more distant and eventually breaking up. I would probably add one caveat to the visualization. "If it is in my highest good and theirs." After all, you don't want him back if it's not going to be a good union. And you don't want the karma of breaking someone up if you're not going to end up happy together. That is just my suggestion. :-)
Big Hugs, Lanie
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Re: Advice on letting go
How do you visualise them growing more distant with each other?
Is it just like you are a fly on the wall sort of thing?
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Re: Advice on letting go
Yeah pretty much I visualise them not going on breaks and lunch together, him been bored with her and then him eventually telling her that it's not working. I also repeat thoughts in my head that they are not happy and he doesn't want to be with her.
I've seen little changes, they don't go on every break together now and don't have lunch together and when they did I caught him looking at me as she was sat next to him playing on his phone. I then saw him without her and he said hello to me, so little things are happening I just need to continue with it and not worry or get hung up on it
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