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7/02/2017 2:00 am  #1


What should I do?

I need some help on what I should do. I have been doing the technique since October last year. My POI went on holidays with his girlfriend and came back engaged to her. I kind of had this feeling this was going to happen by something he said before he went away. I've been doing PW, BWD, love spell and even there for a bit the rubbing out technique. I don't know where I've gone wrong. There have been many times I haven't felt anything when I did it but I kept going. This last week when I done the PW I felt sad and a longing but it only lasted while I did it, I did have trouble getting him to come to me and I had to call his name a lot. I thought it was just my visualising struggles I have. He messaged me 2 months ago and he asked about what I was doing business wise and then he hit me up with a business proposal, I turn him down saying I was happy with the business I was running but I would supported him because he meant a lot to me. He told me he wasn't looking for business partners but still wanted to buy something from me whether I supported him all not. He never bought anything off me and I haven't heard from him personally since. He even missed my birthday. He has been working on this relationship with her for a while, going to relationship courses and what not and this holiday was to dedicate time to the relationship. Maybe he never had feelings for me in the first place, maybe I was just delusional. I thought I did see little  coincidences. Maybe these technique don't work for everyone. I don't know I'm very confused. I don't if I Should count my loses and move on or keep going. I genuinely only do it once a day now and some times I don't do it at all because I'm to tired, all doing things but he is always on my mind and I have been trying to live as is, like he is already mind. Sorry it's a long post but I had to get it off my chest.
What should I do???....... Please any advice, I'm devastated.

7/02/2017 9:45 am  #2


Re: What should I do?

These techniques do work for everyone as they are mental abilities humans have!
If you care about him then you should keep doing it.  If he is resisting and in a relationship, it just means it will take longer because it is not a simple A------ B situation.                        This is A-- #%$--B situation. It means that  it takes time for Universe to clean out these blockages from your desire to physical manifestation. First he has to become aware of his new feelings for you. Then he is resisting it because he is alredy with someone. Then he has to accept them. Then he has to lose feelings for her because of feelings for you. Then they break up. Then he has to recover and then he contacts you to start something with you. It is a process and please don't get discouraged. Know that if you really want it, you will get. Whenever you are devastated it affects this wonderfull energy you released while doing techniques. Don't work against yourself

Last edited by Missy (7/02/2017 9:47 am)

7/03/2017 5:28 am  #3


Re: What should I do?

Thanks Missy, you are so right.  I'm going to keep going with it and have fun and try and live in the end. The only thing that keeps playing on my mind is I asked Lanie once about him and how he is so into LoA and planning would that affect me manifesting him into my life. She told me it could that he could be a hard one to get because of him being able to block and change thoughts coming to him and that I might not be in his  future plans so thoughts of me he dismisses because of him being so dedicated to what he wants in life. She did tell me he would still receive them just might dismiss them easier as they are not what he wants his living in the end to look like. But for now I'm going to keep going and hopefully he will  crack.

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