BabyonthewayJ wrote:

Aw. What happened? In your previous post that you linked you were optimistic and saying the techniques were working. Do you think maybe you don't want this person anymore somewhere deep down inside?  Don't give up on love! sorry to hear this!

I do still want him but I'm just exhausted mentally and physically I can't keep doing this.  Lately visualizing and subliminals has been taking up most of my day and I was very optimistic and positive but I'm just very tired.

I feel the same, been doing PW and remote seduction every night for 2 months and there's been no signs whatsoever from my POI. He's actually just got a new gf and they look happy together even though it's in the early stages. I wonder of continue to do it, whether it'll make me become obsessed and more hurt

Missy wrote:

Lanie manifested her guy after a year...and many others took that amount of time.
 

Totally. Before I even knew what I was doing I suddenly fell in love with a guy I had known since I was a teenager and things were super complicated because he was married and the timing was all wrong. So we parted and he stopped writing me back which caused me some distress but I would imagine us being together for months and months. I wanna say it was about 4-5 months that we didn't speak and I just felt so much love for him the whole time. One day I wrote on a seashell and threw it in the ocean (my name + his name = forever) and then I emailed him and he responded WITH his name + my name = always!! In the subject line. At the time I thought it was a definite sign that we were meant to be together. Soooo many synchronicities happened between us that I was for sure that he was it for me and I for him. Now I realize the power of the love I felt for him was probably the main driving factor in this. Anyway, we didn't last once we got together because my anxiety and insecurity got in the way. But after reading Lanie's books I now know.

I wasn't attached to any outcome. I just was genuinely in love with him and happy to imagine him. Not being attached to any outcome is the trick I guess but when you want something so bad I also know how hard it is to detach.

Met a girl 2 months Ago. We instantly clicked and began dating.
Then about 3 weeks ago I desided to try out BWD on her for the first time.
After that she became distant. A week later she said she needed to put "us" aside until she have her life on track. And now our contact is Pretty Much non existing and She hangs out with other guys.
Up until I used the BWD on her, she was crazy about me.
After that I've promised my self never to use BWD again.