Foxxy_1982 wrote:

OMG!!!! Thee Lanie posted on my story. thank you! I think disconnecting is a key element but a very difficult one for a lot of us..... I'm ready.

I know it's hard to disconnect but it's really for your benefit and does not affect his feelings for you. I don't know how many emails and stories I have read on this forum about getting the ex back after disconnecting.  When you use the technique on them you are connected in a special way.  Because of that connection when you move on they feel the loss.  It can be very powerful!

Lanie - thanks for your words of wisdom. I actually feel much more relaxed about the situation - not so hung up.

Forum - since my POI was out of town last week, we actually spoke all week via text and skype. He went on about missing all these things about me. Wishing to see me and making some open plans to get together when the timing is right. He hasn't said anything I've been working towards - but I am positive it will happen. He told me right now isn't the right time for him and I to be together but he wants it very badly.
That's all for now.

Hello Forum - my POI certainly opened up this week. He share some of his feelings about me and it was lovely feeling/moment. He told me he was going to make a hard effort to spend sometime together. Apologized for being indecisive and explained how he didn't think this situation has prolonged than expected. He told me I have his heart!!!! Aww!!!i told him I didn't think I could help him with his situation but if he felt I could to let me know. I feel happy, I feel good but I am becoming impatient with him sharing this news. I am going to keep up with the PW, CTC audios and remain positive.

Hi TurkiyeKelebek - first off..love your positive attitude towards manifesting is key.
As others have suggested - you must let go after your sessions and allow the universe to work. I do believe the universe delivers when you are ready to receive. My only advice would be to keep an open mind/heart....allow yourself to meet others and enjoy life. Did you end up contacting him? Keep us updated. I wish you all the best.

UPDATE: I don't know if it is the cord cutting I've been doing but today I decided to give my MM an ultimatum. I had told him last week I wasn't going to wait another year for him. So today, he contacted me and I asked him if he had made his decision. He said we'd talk later followed by what if he still didn't know. I said for someone who told me I have his heart should be obvious. He has a son which he is terrified of losing although this isn't possible in the courts today, i do understand it is a worry for all parents. Anyway, he told me I should live my life and we may connect again later in life. Then he asked to call me tomorrow to talk further. I had said I got all the answers I needed and it was goodbye. He carried on telling me he intends on leaving but he feels it is still too fresh (it's been year in August since he got caught) for him to tell his wife it is over as she will know he is leaving her for me. He kept repeating he is fighting for me, intends on leaving...doesn't know when. He is going to contact me tomorrow but really...he gave me the answer - why I bother rubbing salt on my wound. I told him someone is going to end up heartbroken and it turned out to be me...but I am ok with that...rather know he has no idea the how or when...I am blessed enough to still be on earth and I have to keep it moving. I'll be honest, things have just started developing again...I was getting him back..but before I got too hung up on him...I needed to bring this up. Who got the power back.... ME!!! Xo

Foxxy_1982 wrote:

Wow! I haven't posted on here a day short of one month. My apologies. Things have been going well with me. The man is still in my life but it remains the same where communication only happens when he is away from home. I know where he is during the week but I've switched it up and no longer reach out to him. I allow him to contact me, I allow him keep the conversation going. And he's feeling that as he just asked me today if I was seeing someone else. I have started texting another man who is actually available but only in town for a couple more weeks. He's sexy real damn sexy. I relationship won't come out of it but some fun can be had. I'll see the main man soon - he better bring his A-game. However, I do know he's still preaching he is unsure what he wants. I think this new guy is good for me - I think it may take the usual tension and expectation I have for the main. This has caused a lot of quarrels which seem to blow over two weeks later each time. I'm in the mindframe right now to just sit and enjoy each other's company and actually see whether that flame still burns...,

If you want guy A, just know that texting another guy (B) can really hurt things between you and A, if he finds out. Most guys don't like when girls "weigh their opinions" and talk to multiple guys at once. 

Just saying.


But keep up the good work! You can have whomever you'd like I'm glad things are going well for you!