I know it's hard but you ladies need to get busy and live your lives!  Don't worry about what he's doing or if he likes your post or not!  Trust the process and live your life. This is about increasing your value as a woman as much as it is manifesting your desires.

The magical place is when you love your life and that's when the juicy stuff happens. 

Please stop worrying about him and get busy worrying about making you happy!  ❤

I also have trouble detaching too. But like these lovely ladies say, you have to live your life. This does not mean just focusing on ONE thing (your career) but on ALL things - your health, your happiness, your well being, your friends, your community, your family!! Do YOU. Enjoy your NOW right NOW in this very moment. 

If you feel empty - fill that emptiness!! Get out and start volunteering for causes that you REALLY genuinely care about. Go join some "Meet Up" groups and explore your city / town / surroundings. Get Out make new friends. Talk to new people. If you want to date, then date, there are lots of attractive men who have the qualities you want, you just have to look. Right now you have blinders on and focusing on just this one person. 

I'm having trouble too detaching so this is not said with judgement, but with the utmost love and understanding. You need to do you. . Figure out what makes YOU happy. Go out with your girlfriends, go to a spa, pamper yourself (if that's your thing), if not, maybe travel somewhere, and try not to focus on I wish So and So could see this, just travel for the sake of traveling - Go somewhere YOU want to go. If travel isn't your thing, I dunno, take up crafting, playing an instrument, singing, cooking, whatever YOU enjoy, make it something that you are truly passionate about it. The joy will flow easier (still hard though I know, of course it is, or none of us would be on this forum. We are all searching for love). You are not alone, everything will be OK. Just remind yourself you won't die without this person, your life does not depend on this person. You are your own complete, whole person, and you do not need another person to complete you or make you happy. 

Just start small and general. All you have to do is to "feel better" this doesn't mean you have to feel miraculously happy, just do something that makes you "better" however slight / small. Aknowledge the "better" come to understand the things that make you "feel better" - They may not be things that you are "overjoyed" with, but just things that make you feel "better" than whatever you are feeling right NOW. It's not about finding something better than the feeling of if your desires manifested, it's about finding something better than whatever you are currently feeling right now. The more you "feel better" the more you'll come to realize HOW to make yourself feel better, and the less "stuck" you feel. You will think "I enjoy doing X" - maybe X is as simple as soaking in your bathtub, or eating at your favorite restaurant, or maybe X is a big dream going to another country, learning a new hobby / skill, giving back to your community, whatever X is, focus on doing more of X, and look for other things too that make YOU happy. no one here can really tell you what those things are, only you really know your source of happiness. Just remember X doesn't have to be a thing that makes you as happy as your love, it just needs to be something that makes you happier than however you are feeling in the current moment. It's okay to not be 100% happy, the goal is just to "feel better" and once you are "consistently feeling better" find a new thing to make you feel even better, and even better, and even better . Every time you "feel better" you're attracting more of that feeling of "better"

Thank you for all the replies. I'm in a mess too.

I just found out what my block is yesterday. I know and believe he will come back but a small voice in my head doesn't believe he'll reach out first since all the techniques and meditation didn't bring about the outcome...

Gotta shut that down.