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Hey everyone, there's something I just realized this morning;
I'm currently having another break from my original POI. I'm in a really good headspace at the moment (detached from the outcome) so I'm currently working on a new POI (for now) who lives on the other side of the country. Last year in October I went to a gig, met one of the band members (new temporary POI), thought he was really cute and decided I wouldn't mind dating him. For a few weeks after the gig I was doing Wendii's RS on him (this was before I discovered Lanie) for fun then let it go as I didn't know when his band was going to tour again. 2 weeks ago his band played in my city. I met him and one of his bandmates again, (assuming he forgot who I was as it'd had been almost a year since I first met him) and he was really awkward/quiet and looked freaked out especially when i went to give him a hug, I brushed it off that maybe he was tired.
I met him and the rest of the band after the show and noticed he was a lot happier, he had a big smile on his face and gave me a tight hug. I got a photo with them and again he has a big mouth open grin and bending down/leaning in towards me which makes me think it was the technique working as Ive seen in other photos with fans from that night and he either is somewhat smiling with his mouth closed or looking tired. Since then Ive been doing quite intense BWD on him. A few days after I started my friend asked if I wanted to travel for a music festival early next year and what a surprise (or not hehehe) his band is playing! So ive now been visualizing him remembering me and buying me a coffee.
Bottom line is even when you think the technique isn't working, it still is!!