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10/30/2019 3:18 am  #1


Positive end to my journey but not what I thought it would be....

Hi everyone. It’s been a long time since I posted anything on here but as I feel I am coming to the end of my journey with my POI I thought I’d give an update.
 
I found PW probably at the right time in my life, just after my POI ended things between us.  I started using Lanie’s technique on him and he contacted me a few months after he had completely cut me off.  We stayed in contact for about 3 or more years (yes, I have been using the technique for a long time!) with him telling me how much he wanted to see me, knew I was right for him etc but during all that time we never actually saw each other again.  About a year ago my POI went quiet on me and I have since found out he is in a committed relationship.  This hurt a lot when I found out and I did ask him why he couldn’t have been honest with me rather than cut me off but obviously I received no reply!  
I am kind of at the point where him being in a relationship is no longer an issue for me, more the way he has behaved about it all but I realise now that is on his part and out of my control and I don’t allow it to play on my mind or control my feelings anymore.
 
I have deleted his number and everything of him on social media.  I’ve told him to delete my number but he hasn’t. I have no doubt I will hear from him one day as I still feel there is a connection between us and not necessarily a sexual one, could just be we are meant to be friends – who knows but time will tell!
 
So for me, PW, BWD etc did not work with my POI in the way I was originally wanting it to but I believe I am a better person for doing the techniques.  They introduced me to meditation which in turn has helped me in my career and day-to-day life so I can’t complain.  I have also used PW on others and it has had the desired effect so I know it works. It also gives me a positive boost if I am having a down day (which happens very rarely now) and makes me feel good about myself.
 
Really I just wanted to say thank you to Lanie for everything you have done and continue to do, your technique is something that will stay with me for a long time.  And thank you to everyone on this forum, I enjoy reading everyone’s progress and will continue to pop in and out of here once in a while to see how you are all doing https://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/happy.png

 


Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards

11/03/2019 9:41 am  #2


Re: Positive end to my journey but not what I thought it would be....

BelleVue wrote:

Hi everyone. It’s been a long time since I posted anything on here but as I feel I am coming to the end of my journey with my POI I thought I’d give an update.
 
I found PW probably at the right time in my life, just after my POI ended things between us.  I started using Lanie’s technique on him and he contacted me a few months after he had completely cut me off.  We stayed in contact for about 3 or more years (yes, I have been using the technique for a long time!) with him telling me how much he wanted to see me, knew I was right for him etc but during all that time we never actually saw each other again.  About a year ago my POI went quiet on me and I have since found out he is in a committed relationship.  This hurt a lot when I found out and I did ask him why he couldn’t have been honest with me rather than cut me off but obviously I received no reply!  
I am kind of at the point where him being in a relationship is no longer an issue for me, more the way he has behaved about it all but I realise now that is on his part and out of my control and I don’t allow it to play on my mind or control my feelings anymore.
 
I have deleted his number and everything of him on social media.  I’ve told him to delete my number but he hasn’t. I have no doubt I will hear from him one day as I still feel there is a connection between us and not necessarily a sexual one, could just be we are meant to be friends – who knows but time will tell!
 
So for me, PW, BWD etc did not work with my POI in the way I was originally wanting it to but I believe I am a better person for doing the techniques.  They introduced me to meditation which in turn has helped me in my career and day-to-day life so I can’t complain.  I have also used PW on others and it has had the desired effect so I know it works. It also gives me a positive boost if I am having a down day (which happens very rarely now) and makes me feel good about myself.
 
Really I just wanted to say thank you to Lanie for everything you have done and continue to do, your technique is something that will stay with me for a long time.  And thank you to everyone on this forum, I enjoy reading everyone’s progress and will continue to pop in and out of here once in a while to see how you are all doing https://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/happy.png

Happy to hear that you are in a much better place.

Sometime some common sense goes a long way with using these techniques as well. I have men wanting a relationship with me, that I never used these techniques on. Yet at the end of the day, even though they claim to want me, they don't lift a finger to prove that they are worthy of my time. Yet expect me to just take their words seriously. You MUST judge a man more by his actions and not by his words.

11/08/2019 1:22 pm  #3


Re: Positive end to my journey but not what I thought it would be....

BelleVue wrote:

Hi everyone. It’s been a long time since I posted anything on here but as I feel I am coming to the end of my journey with my POI I thought I’d give an update.
 
I found PW probably at the right time in my life, just after my POI ended things between us.  I started using Lanie’s technique on him and he contacted me a few months after he had completely cut me off.  We stayed in contact for about 3 or more years (yes, I have been using the technique for a long time!) with him telling me how much he wanted to see me, knew I was right for him etc but during all that time we never actually saw each other again.  About a year ago my POI went quiet on me and I have since found out he is in a committed relationship.  This hurt a lot when I found out and I did ask him why he couldn’t have been honest with me rather than cut me off but obviously I received no reply!  
I am kind of at the point where him being in a relationship is no longer an issue for me, more the way he has behaved about it all but I realise now that is on his part and out of my control and I don’t allow it to play on my mind or control my feelings anymore.
 
I have deleted his number and everything of him on social media.  I’ve told him to delete my number but he hasn’t. I have no doubt I will hear from him one day as I still feel there is a connection between us and not necessarily a sexual one, could just be we are meant to be friends – who knows but time will tell!
 
So for me, PW, BWD etc did not work with my POI in the way I was originally wanting it to but I believe I am a better person for doing the techniques.  They introduced me to meditation which in turn has helped me in my career and day-to-day life so I can’t complain.  I have also used PW on others and it has had the desired effect so I know it works. It also gives me a positive boost if I am having a down day (which happens very rarely now) and makes me feel good about myself.
 
Really I just wanted to say thank you to Lanie for everything you have done and continue to do, your technique is something that will stay with me for a long time.  And thank you to everyone on this forum, I enjoy reading everyone’s progress and will continue to pop in and out of here once in a while to see how you are all doing https://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/happy.png

 

I'm so sorry things didn't work out as you'd planned but at least you have confirmation the technique works and through meditation and focus you have improved other aspects of your life.  Sometimes things don't work out but it's because there is something SO much better out there that you will receive.  I have no doubt this is the case with you.  xoxoxoxoxo

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