Lara- wrote:

Hello ladies....Im new here, need some encouragement.
Im in love with a man who is already in a commited relationship. Ive been doing pussy whip, still no results.   We used to be close , but now I havent heard from him in months. Sometimes I get the feeling he thinks about me, and sometimes I feel I lost him forever. How to keep positive attitude all the time? 
What if he thinks about me but refuses to contact me. I think about him every day but will not contact him first, maybe he thinks the same way? I ve been doing this method for weeks and it starts to feel like a chore. Im tired and bored visualizing the same scenario over and over again. Should I include his girlfriend in visualizations? For example, he tells me he broke up with her, he doesnt want her anymore and so on? I am afraid including her in my sessions would only bring more of her in his life? 

I saw your question and pondered how I should reply. But something made me leave without saying anything. I went over to The Secret website and boom found this lovely, love story. Read it as it will help you with your current situation. All the best to you.

Love Will Come To You The Moment You Stop Needing It - http://laniestevensforum.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=309

Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Positivity wrote:

scarlet wrote:

Has anyone experience yawning while doing the technique. Lately thats been happening to me.

Yes me! everytime he walks over after I called I yawn once only not lots of times I'm not sure why either 😒😊

 
I yawn with a flow of energy happening. A friend who is a psychic reader yawns before she gets info. It's a great sign!

princessgirl87 wrote:

Hi everyone! I'm Bo and I'm kinda new to the whole RS thing (although I heard of it years ago).
I just downloaded Lanie's two books "Pussy Power" and "How To Make Him Burn With Desire" after rediscovering the topic on another forum about her books (Hello Lanie!)
And I finished reading both and have started using the techniques. And I think they are working somewhat (no messages yet, just likes on my comments and gratitude on a recent pledge of his)
The person in question is a very much older musician in his late 50's (I'm 29) who led an 80's group back in the day and I realized he was still making music with his new music friend and they both added me on social media last month. He's...amazing... soothing... and I'm not entirely sure why but I've found myself drawn to him since he's added me. I want to keep the ball rolling and become closer to him, which is why I've been doing the techniques for almost a week now. And I know I'm doing them right...but what frustrates me is that while I'm doing this, I've accidentally attracted other men in the process I DON'T want...how do I prevent attracting others? I just want to attract him, the musician...ONLY.
Has this happened to anyone else?

If you take some time to read this very thread, you will see other members have already commented on this very thing happening to them. And it will happen no matter what you do. Think of yourself as a broadcasting station. Both men and women will want to tune it to your frequency because they like your energy. They won't have a choice. Honestly don't focus on driving other men away and focus solely on this guy. You may like him now, but are you certain he is what is best for you in the end? Don't drive away other men you have no interest in. Just enjoy it. Relish in it. See this as a wonderful experience. Give praise to the Father that you are alive to have this experience. Thank the Universe a million times over for this blessing. I am taking it that you are single. Have a blast being single. There is no harm in enjoying the company of other men. This will not hinder your progress with your musician guy in any way. Keeping your options OPEN is okay. Make peace with it. You can date other guys that come along. It is up to if you want to have sex with them or not. However I never place dating and sex inside the same category just for clarification. All the best to you princessgirl87.

I don't understand why women have this reaction that it is a bad thing other men than the one they are after finds them attractive.

Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Morning Ladies! 

Hey Lanie!! Thanks a bunch for your books and great technique. I have tried the technique (not regularly) with a guy that I am crushing on. He reached out after two months of no contact, however, I stopped with the technique after he made contact. 

I now have more than just him that I would like to date romantically. So I guess my question is do I use the technique on them individually OR just use the technique w/o having a clear target and just tap into that euphoric happy state of mind.

I hope that makes sense.  

princessgirl87 wrote:

Hi everyone! I'm Bo and I'm kinda new to the whole RS thing (although I heard of it years ago).
I just downloaded Lanie's two books "Pussy Power" and "How To Make Him Burn With Desire" after rediscovering the topic on another forum about her books (Hello Lanie!)
And I finished reading both and have started using the techniques. And I think they are working somewhat (no messages yet, just likes on my comments and gratitude on a recent pledge of his)
The person in question is a very much older musician in his late 50's (I'm 29) who led an 80's group back in the day and I realized he was still making music with his new music friend and they both added me on social media last month. He's...amazing... soothing... and I'm not entirely sure why but I've found myself drawn to him since he's added me. I want to keep the ball rolling and become closer to him, which is why I've been doing the techniques for almost a week now. And I know I'm doing them right...but what frustrates me is that while I'm doing this, I've accidentally attracted other men in the process I DON'T want...how do I prevent attracting others? I just want to attract him, the musician...ONLY.
Has this happened to anyone else?

Hi Bo!  Attracting others is a GOOD thing so please don't discourage it!  When everyone else wants you then it is confirmation that you are "in the flow" and good things (and people) will come to you! 

Welcome to the forum!  I hope you're finding it informative!

Big Hugs,
Lanie