Awesome, you need to calm down. Everything I've ever read about LOA states that the Universe doesn't understand yes or no. It's a feeling universe, and you get what you feel. What you are vibrating is based on your emotions, and everything I've read today shows insecurity and fear. If you keep projecting fear, fear, fear, you are going to manifest your fears. Jealousy, insecurity and fear aren't going to help you manifest what you want. You need to work on feeling good about things in your life. I don't know how many more ways I can say it.

The need to control things is also a counterproductive vibration. If you are trying to use the LOA to bring a loving relationship to you, part of that is trusting the Universe to bring it to you at the right time. Trying to manipulate and force the outcome shows lack of faith. You are going to have a hard time manifesting things you want with a lack of faith and an attitude full of fear. I know, I went through the same things. You have to take your time and just trust things will happen in their own, perfect time. Please, try and forget about this trip right now. You are obsessing over it and I'm telling you, if you are full of nothing but jealousy and fear...that's what you are going to get back. Please, relax and trust.

If you keep trying to contact him, you may push him away. Pushing him away is going to make you have more negative thoughts to overcome before you'll be able to move towards what you want. If you are in a situation where you are talking with him, you are already so far ahead of some people trying to manifest a relationship. A lot of people have already been blocked in every form by the one they love...so you need to recognize that you are in a GOOD position. Use that to your advantage and try to control your emotions right now. Don't freak out and text him endlessly. Do the methods, let him reach out to you.

Stay calm, try to focus on the GOOD. Do what makes you feel GOOD. Think about what you WANT and feel good about it. You'll be moving towards what you want at that time. In the meantime..let him come to you. Don't force it.

 

awesomesauce88 wrote:

Ok so today has been no Bueno my mind has been going to thoughts I don't want and I want to change that quick because it seems like I guess negative thoughts manifest quick but I want my good ones too I'm about I have a panic attack. I want him home. Then when he gets back I'm gonna want to know what happened

Take a deep breath and calm down. You have the knowledge and the power to shift things around in your direction. I strongly suggest you do not ask him one damn thing when he comes home. The way you are vibrating you will only end up hurt by his words. Read Pussy Whip again and do what Lanie says to do.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

emmiline wrote:

awesomesauce88,

You seem to be in a place of confusion / anxiety and struggle right now. You need to learn to be in control of your emotions first before practising manifesting.

I just don't get it. She was fine for a while and I thought she was finally on track. She needs to practice letting go. That is the only way she is going to get this guy back. She needs to be more of the woman who is happy without him. Once he feels that vibration from her, he will come running right back.

This process took Lanie a whole year. She needs to let go of having him back in her life this very second. At the rate she is going, he will only leave her again and she will be right back to square one.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

emmiline wrote:

^ You have to be at peace with the outcome, whatever it is.

This is so true. Maybe she can try a test subject out first. A guy that she thinks is a catch but she doesn't want to be in a relationship with. Once she start seeings the results, she will really begin to understand how to bring this man into her life with love and not obsession.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

emmiline wrote:

^ I believe you can, Lanie and others have posted here what their experiences are and they have certainly done this. But you have to let go of the desparation and negativity, and be at peace.

Maybe reading some success stories might do her some good. I don't know. Maybe a new one might just click with her.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.