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Lanie Stevens wrote:
Hi Bo! Attracting others is a GOOD thing so please don't discourage it! When everyone else wants you then it is confirmation that you are "in the flow" and good things (and people) will come to you!
Welcome to the forum! I hope you're finding it informative!
Big Hugs,
Lanie
I don't see the necessity in pushing away one's good fortune. But that is just how I feel.
Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.
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princessgirl87 wrote:
Hi everyone! I'm Bo and I'm kinda new to the whole RS thing (although I heard of it years ago).
I just downloaded Lanie's two books "Pussy Power" and "How To Make Him Burn With Desire" after rediscovering the topic on another forum about her books (Hello Lanie!)
And I finished reading both and have started using the techniques. And I think they are working somewhat (no messages yet, just likes on my comments and gratitude on a recent pledge of his)
The person in question is a very much older musician in his late 50's (I'm 29) who led an 80's group back in the day and I realized he was still making music with his new music friend and they both added me on social media last month. He's...amazing... soothing... and I'm not entirely sure why but I've found myself drawn to him since he's added me. I want to keep the ball rolling and become closer to him, which is why I've been doing the techniques for almost a week now. And I know I'm doing them right...but what frustrates me is that while I'm doing this, I've accidentally attracted other men in the process I DON'T want...how do I prevent attracting others? I just want to attract him, the musician...ONLY.
Has this happened to anyone else?If you take some time to read this very thread, you will see other members have already commented on this very thing happening to them. And it will happen no matter what you do. Think of yourself as a broadcasting station. Both men and women will want to tune it to your frequency because they like your energy. They won't have a choice. Honestly don't focus on driving other men away and focus solely on this guy. You may like him now, but are you certain he is what is best for you in the end? Don't drive away other men you have no interest in. Just enjoy it. Relish in it. See this as a wonderful experience. Give praise to the Father that you are alive to have this experience. Thank the Universe a million times over for this blessing. I am taking it that you are single. Have a blast being single. There is no harm in enjoying the company of other men. This will not hinder your progress with your musician guy in any way. Keeping your options OPEN is okay. Make peace with it. You can date other guys that come along. It is up to if you want to have sex with them or not. However I never place dating and sex inside the same category just for clarification. All the best to you princessgirl87.
I don't understand why women have this reaction that it is a bad thing other men than the one they are after finds them attractive.
Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.
So far, I've had other males slide in my pm and they were flirtatious yet didn't and haven't gone overboard with it like this one guy. Omg he's so needy! Usually I do like the attention of guys but the needy ones (like him) are hard to deal with, haha. xD
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Lanie Stevens wrote:
princessgirl87 wrote:
Hi everyone! I'm Bo and I'm kinda new to the whole RS thing (although I heard of it years ago).
I just downloaded Lanie's two books "Pussy Power" and "How To Make Him Burn With Desire" after rediscovering the topic on another forum about her books (Hello Lanie!)
And I finished reading both and have started using the techniques. And I think they are working somewhat (no messages yet, just likes on my comments and gratitude on a recent pledge of his)
The person in question is a very much older musician in his late 50's (I'm 29) who led an 80's group back in the day and I realized he was still making music with his new music friend and they both added me on social media last month. He's...amazing... soothing... and I'm not entirely sure why but I've found myself drawn to him since he's added me. I want to keep the ball rolling and become closer to him, which is why I've been doing the techniques for almost a week now. And I know I'm doing them right...but what frustrates me is that while I'm doing this, I've accidentally attracted other men in the process I DON'T want...how do I prevent attracting others? I just want to attract him, the musician...ONLY.
Has this happened to anyone else?Hi Bo! Attracting others is a GOOD thing so please don't discourage it! When everyone else wants you then it is confirmation that you are "in the flow" and good things (and people) will come to you!
Welcome to the forum! I hope you're finding it informative!
Big Hugs,
Lanie
Hi Lanie! ^^
And thank you! I've been reading this forum for almost 2 weeks now. As with the technique, I've done it for a week now and....
....It's working...
Not only have I attracted two nice guys sliding in my private msgs, From my target (the musician) I've had constant likes on comments, two occasions where I've influenced him (a profile picture change; one I actually liked on FB the night b4 he changed it...and another pic I liked and commented on, he liked my comment then turned around and REPOSTED the same pic to address several other bands as a thank you post, then just this past Thursday morning after posting a selfie on Wednesday night that I took--with him, specifically in mind, he LIKED said pic!
I am still tripping off that! Breathless and all! Lmao! I wanna post another for him to like--or should I wait on it--just got my hair done though...I wanted to show everyone my hair anyway haha xD
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princessgirl87 wrote:
Lanie Stevens wrote:
princessgirl87 wrote:
Hi everyone! I'm Bo and I'm kinda new to the whole RS thing (although I heard of it years ago).
I just downloaded Lanie's two books "Pussy Power" and "How To Make Him Burn With Desire" after rediscovering the topic on another forum about her books (Hello Lanie!)
And I finished reading both and have started using the techniques. And I think they are working somewhat (no messages yet, just likes on my comments and gratitude on a recent pledge of his)
The person in question is a very much older musician in his late 50's (I'm 29) who led an 80's group back in the day and I realized he was still making music with his new music friend and they both added me on social media last month. He's...amazing... soothing... and I'm not entirely sure why but I've found myself drawn to him since he's added me. I want to keep the ball rolling and become closer to him, which is why I've been doing the techniques for almost a week now. And I know I'm doing them right...but what frustrates me is that while I'm doing this, I've accidentally attracted other men in the process I DON'T want...how do I prevent attracting others? I just want to attract him, the musician...ONLY.
Has this happened to anyone else?Hi Bo! Attracting others is a GOOD thing so please don't discourage it! When everyone else wants you then it is confirmation that you are "in the flow" and good things (and people) will come to you!
Welcome to the forum! I hope you're finding it informative!
Big Hugs,
LanieHi Lanie! ^^
And thank you! I've been reading this forum for almost 2 weeks now. As with the technique, I've done it for a week now and....
....It's working...
Not only have I attracted two nice guys sliding in my private msgs, From my target (the musician) I've had constant likes on comments, two occasions where I've influenced him (a profile picture change; one I actually liked on FB the night b4 he changed it...and another pic I liked and commented on, he liked my comment then turned around and REPOSTED the same pic to address several other bands as a thank you post, then just this past Thursday morning after posting a selfie on Wednesday night that I took--with him, specifically in mind, he LIKED said pic!
I am still tripping off that! Breathless and all! Lmao! I wanna post another for him to like--or should I wait on it--just got my hair done though...I wanted to show everyone my hair anyway haha xD
Girl you are manifesting awesome things! No expectations allowed!!! Just keep doing what you're doing and ride the wave as great things come your way!
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I copied this from Veronica's LOA forum because Craig88 has posted here so I thought you may be interested in an update.
[img] [/img] Craigd88 wrote:Well I manifested her back but then you know what? I decided I didn't want her.
I want someone closer to my level in certain areas. I have raised my vibe quite high. My vibrational starting point or focus point has been anger/frustration which is leagues beyond depression and low self worth/esteem where I vibrated for months.
I'm loving the new me. I've been reading Wayne Dyer and have started The Magic by Ronda Byrnes. I am enjoying the single life and have met many attractive women (more attractive than my ex). I am thankful for my ex because she had indirectly led me to discover LOA and this community. I love you all and can help some of you if you have questions.
Self love, self appreciation, gratitude and raising your vibration is the key to everything. Faith, belief and expectation follows once those are rooted in place. Many of you really want your ex back and that's fine but I have a feeling when you discover who you are, the new and improved you, you will notice you are way too worthy to settle for someone outside of your vibrationalso vicinity
Blessings to you all!
I'm not surprised that you manifested her back OR that you decided that she wasn't the right person for you. As you raise your vibration others will become out of alignment with the "new you" and you will definitely feel it! It's still good that you realize that you have the power and ability to manifest what you desire in your life. :-)
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I already saw his update. I am keeping my mouth close on this one as it rubs me the wrong way.
Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.
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ChaliceSnowFlower wrote:
I already saw his update. I am keeping my mouth close on this one as it rubs me the wrong way.
Gorgeous Lucky Bitch,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.
I'm curious why does it rub you the wrong way 😉
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Lanie Stevens wrote:
princessgirl87 wrote:
Lanie Stevens wrote:
Hi Bo! Attracting others is a GOOD thing so please don't discourage it! When everyone else wants you then it is confirmation that you are "in the flow" and good things (and people) will come to you!
Welcome to the forum! I hope you're finding it informative!
Big Hugs,
LanieHi Lanie! ^^
And thank you! I've been reading this forum for almost 2 weeks now. As with the technique, I've done it for a week now and....
....It's working...
Not only have I attracted two nice guys sliding in my private msgs, From my target (the musician) I've had constant likes on comments, two occasions where I've influenced him (a profile picture change; one I actually liked on FB the night b4 he changed it...and another pic I liked and commented on, he liked my comment then turned around and REPOSTED the same pic to address several other bands as a thank you post, then just this past Thursday morning after posting a selfie on Wednesday night that I took--with him, specifically in mind, he LIKED said pic!
I am still tripping off that! Breathless and all! Lmao! I wanna post another for him to like--or should I wait on it--just got my hair done though...I wanted to show everyone my hair anyway haha xDGirl you are manifesting awesome things! No expectations allowed!!! Just keep doing what you're doing and ride the wave as great things come your way!
It's definitely working! My latest update? He just did an 80's sound-fused love song with another artist and that premiered on Monday and I listened to the song, following the link, and then posted it on FB because I loved it so much. And I tagged him and the artist and others in it from my friends list, so they too can listen. Well, hours later, he went and shared the post I made on FB and he commented on the shared post, and I felt like he was in a lovey-dovey mood? Like, he poetically reminisced about when he was younger; about falling in love and leaving a summer love behind and not wanting to leave his love behind or saying 'goodbye" to them (which is what the song is essentially about) but I feel like something else was on his mind, too. And I wonder if I helped influence him in that way...
I swooned when I read that post and in response I told him that the song reminded me of a romance novel. Cliche? Yeah sure. But soon after he liked my comment, lol.
Oh and these guys keep sliding in my PMs. 2 slid in this morning after I posted new selfies, lol.
Even my ex crush musta ran into my page on the timeline or lurked, cuz he tagged someone on the post that I was tagged in, and the person who tagged me and 2 others, ALL THREE of THEM don't have this guy on their friends list. Only ME.
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Hi sisters (is there a introduce yourself thread?). Thanks so much for the books Lanie!!!!
I purchased the triple bundle of the books nearly 3 months ago after an ex broke up with me.
I only tried to use my whip on him once but then gave up because I was struggling to let it go. I would think about him all the time, low energy, check my phone and emails but wasn't able to send him positive thoughts and loving thoughts so the books started collecting cyber dust.
I recently met a guy who is the one I want he wanted me too but I wasn't in the right space on our 2 dates. So now this guy has told me hes not interested and I know exactly why. My vibes were off and I was distracted by my ex anyway I finally let the ex go now. I'm focused on using my p whip to get the new guy back but now I'm sending this guy positive messages and I'm feeling open to all the possibilities. It hasn't been 30 days yet but I feel its working even though the signs are not "obvious" I have faith hes getting my messages. I haven't tried to manifest anything into my life this month apart from him...unless you count manifesting positive energy into my life and confidence.
These books have given me a new lease of life. My spirit and energy are changing for the better. I'm working hard at being my best self not for him but for myself. I feel invigorated and positive. Its something I work on every day. Book 3 is my favourite because its like that girlfriend that is always in your corner cheering you on. We women really do have something men start wars over! The quotes in book 3 give me so much confidence.
I tried the first technique in the burn with desire book (the p whip on steroids I like to call it LOL) I'm not going to go into too much detail but I felt something so strong it kinda scared me. Like he was sending me a message too or at least responding to my visualization. Theres no way he missed THAT message I sent him! I blush just thinking about it LOL
My question are,
1) when you want to use the whip to get someone back into your life is it ok to place yourself in situations or places that you know he visits. For example: taking a route home from work that you know he takes or is it better to use the whip and just get on with your normal routine?
2) Has anyone ever cried when using the P whip technique in book one?
3) What strategies do you advice for not checking your phone/email and just letting it go trusting the whip will work?
4) Have any sisters slipped between daydreaming and visualization? This is what I'm struggling with right now. I vizualise using meditation music then I see myself in my visualizations like I'm watching a movie. I know in the book Lanie said this is daydreaming?
Thanks in advance
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