awesomesauce88 wrote:

I can't do this if he has slept with anyone I can't. The problem I have is that we have been friends with benefits for months...and for him to do that knowing that it would hurt me if I knew?

Read Lanie's success story ten more times about getting her ex back. Her guy slept with other women too during the time they were apart. A whole year at that. But that had no bearing on her bringing him back to her.

I'm sorry to say this to you awesomesauce88, but men pretty much say and do anything they can to get your panties off. They will even say I love you to get your guard down. They instinctively know that we are turned on by what we hear.

The first thing you have to do is never sleep with this guy again until he really is yours. The second thing is to detach your emotions from him until you are in a much better place and know confidently that you can draw him back to you. The third thing is to manifest him effortlessly into your arms again and keep him there.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

awesomesauce88 wrote:

I'm not ignoring it I take it but no one seems to remember or understand how hard his is. I state again if he has slept with someone else I cannot manifest being with him Roght now because it would devastate me that he did that knowing we have been sleeping with each other. After him being romantic sometimes? After him knowing how it would hurt me.

Take no offense to my next words. STOP WHINING. He's not even your boyfriend. Just a friend with benefits. And from what I can tell, he was the only one getting all the benefits. you however got nothing in return. Now you are worried about what he is doing. He however is living his life and having fun. I suggest you take a page outta his manifestation book. That might help you.

You gotta be a better friend to yourself. He got what he wanted from you without having to love you or commit to you. So now he is free to do what he wants to do. Accept it and move on.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

pectinase wrote:

You're creating the "he's slept with someone else" story in your head already, regardless of if it's happened or not. You need to rewrite that story. And why would you want to manifest a relationship with him if you're convinced he's the type to go off and sleep with someone else? That paranoia and those doubts is not the foundation for a healthy relationship and those vibrations from women break down relationships. I've seen it time and time again.

Read Lanie's books again and feel how powerful you are. He should (and can) be the one desiring your love, not the other way around. Chill out and make it happen.

If she knows that he is a dog and he is acting like one, why try so hard to get him back? Would it not be a better use of her time to attract a man 100 times better than him? I think so.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

awesomesauce88 wrote:

Difference is though if he was with me like officially he would not do that and he is commited. The panic then goes. But when he is romantic one minute and then tells me how he doesn't want to be In a relationship because he can do what he wants without worrying. He told me like a month ago that if this girl texted him to sleep with him he had the option to go and do it. Do you see my where my panic stems from now?

TURN OFF THE PANIC BUTTON. Get a sheet of paper right now. You are going to do this by hand. Step away from the internet. Get a pen or pencil, your preference. You are going to write out what the perfect day with him would look like. Write down all the details that you can. You can write things about where you two live, what type of job you have, if you two are already married, how many kids do you have if there are any in your picture, the type of friends you have, the relationship you have with family, pets if you want any, how many cars are in the garage, how much money you have in your bank account, how many times a year you go on vacation trips. And just about anything else you want in your perfect day. It's your perfect day so play with it. Even if it takes a week or a month to write it all down DO IT.

AND I AM DEAD SERIOUS ABOUT DOING THIS TOO. No more panic, fear, excuses, worry, doubts or questions from you. Every morning and every night you are going to read, feel and live in that moment for the next 30 days. Do it for 30 days and see where your relationship is then with this guy.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

No but that's how I would feel. Also I do script everyday.

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