Good Morning everyone

I had written to Lanie and as always she's just amazing at answering & giving advice.
Let me share with you all.
When I started her technique it was the best I ever felt..I was happy, smiling, and I felt like I really connected with him. But "I felt amazing. Which was big for me, someone who suffered from depression.
When we broke up he wouldn't even reply to any msgs I sent.
7 days after doing the technique I msg him "happy NY" he immediately repliief wishing me the same.  Said thanks he about 30mins he replied thanks to you too. I was pleasantly surprised & continued doing the technique. It even got more intense. Where I  even felll sleep and felt him doing things to me.

Well the 2nd week. I was still feeling great. And then I send him a pic of  US. A funny pic. I sent it on whatsapp so I saw he read it, came off and didn't reply. So I msg him and said "it made me laugh" and I thought it would do the same for you, he read it and couple minutes later he replied "very nice...but to let you know I'm seeing someone, so no need to do that" I felt like my heart was tearing out, (even though the voice inside said keep the faith" so I replied  with tears "that's great congrats"  he immediately replied "u ok with that?" Then he msg me again "wow" I replied "yes why would I not be..I'm happy for you" he replied "ok thanks"  I cried. I kept thinking I thought during my visualization that I felt him.  It felt so real so omg how this happen.

Well for the 1st day I felt like shit, then I thought to myself "keep your faith" and then it's like an energy comes over me and I feel amazing again. I did the technique and felt wonderful. But by the end of day I felt like shit again, "thinking about them"  "I woke up I felt like shit.  Thoughts filled my head "why did I contact him? Thinking who she is?"I then read Neville imagination plus faith" and I felt ok. So I did the technique and this time I focused on my heart and omg. Immediately I felt like I was washed cleaned I still have goose bumps from it now, ( this is why I wrote this) to let anyone who are feeling down practice sending this love from your heart, not for the person but for YOU, to lift your spirits, to feel good. I am actually crying right now.  I think Lanie had said something about tears from doing this.

Does anyone have similar feelings. Also I am sorry for this long message but I wanted to share exactly what's happening to get the best advice from you all. Also I realized I brought this to me. See I would always look at his FB, see if he added anyone new, wondering if he's seeing someone"  I even looked at his page the day he told me he's seeing someone. I need to stop this. ( just kneeing it real and honest)
Thanks in advance for  your advice

I do not want anyone else that is how I feel if the law works why should I have to compromise what I want? You are now asking me to go with the idea of having someone else possibly when the law states that I can have whatever it is I want? Then it really isn't the law is it? I shouldn't have to compromise my wants to make the law work. Then I am not getting what I want and the law is invalid is it not?

by Cheriesymone
I indersatnd perfectly what you are saying. I myself feel really good with visualization and things and then I feel awful again. I trying to work on this as well. I am not sure why yor situation happened however. I would love to see what everyone else has to say as to why that occurred.

awesomesauce88 wrote:

I want him he is the man I want the relationship I had with him is what I want . There romantic one. Do not want another guy and if law of attraction works I will will get what I want. Also moving on not what I want I want him.

I meant moving on with living your life as you were before you met him and being happy with yourself and loving yourself again. This is what attracted him to you in the first place. It will work again. Before you knew of his existence you never had this fixation on him. That's why you have to LET HIM GO.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Cheriesymone wrote:

Good Morning everyone

I had written to Lanie and as always she's just amazing at answering & giving advice.
Let me share with you all.
When I started her technique it was the best I ever felt..I was happy, smiling, and I felt like I really connected with him. But "I felt amazing. Which was big for me, someone who suffered from depression.
When we broke up he wouldn't even reply to any msgs I sent.
7 days after doing the technique I msg him "happy NY" he immediately repliief wishing me the same. Said thanks he about 30mins he replied thanks to you too. I was pleasantly surprised & continued doing the technique. It even got more intense. Where I even felll sleep and felt him doing things to me.

Well the 2nd week. I was still feeling great. And then I send him a pic of US. A funny pic. I sent it on whatsapp so I saw he read it, came off and didn't reply. So I msg him and said "it made me laugh" and I thought it would do the same for you, he read it and couple minutes later he replied "very nice...but to let you know I'm seeing someone, so no need to do that" I felt like my heart was tearing out, (even though the voice inside said keep the faith" so I replied with tears "that's great congrats" he immediately replied "u ok with that?" Then he msg me again "wow" I replied "yes why would I not be..I'm happy for you" he replied "ok thanks" I cried. I kept thinking I thought during my visualization that I felt him. It felt so real so omg how this happen.

Well for the 1st day I felt like shit, then I thought to myself "keep your faith" and then it's like an energy comes over me and I feel amazing again. I did the technique and felt wonderful. But by the end of day I felt like shit again, "thinking about them" "I woke up I felt like shit. Thoughts filled my head "why did I contact him? Thinking who she is?"I then read Neville imagination plus faith" and I felt ok. So I did the technique and this time I focused on my heart and omg. Immediately I felt like I was washed cleaned I still have goose bumps from it now, ( this is why I wrote this) to let anyone who are feeling down practice sending this love from your heart, not for the person but for YOU, to lift your spirits, to feel good. I am actually crying right now. I think Lanie had said something about tears from doing this.

Does anyone have similar feelings. Also I am sorry for this long message but I wanted to share exactly what's happening to get the best advice from you all. Also I realized I brought this to me. See I would always look at his FB, see if he added anyone new, wondering if he's seeing someone" I even looked at his page the day he told me he's seeing someone. I need to stop this. ( just kneeing it real and honest)
Thanks in advance for your advice

I have given some good advice here especially to awesomesause88. Go back and read all my posts. It is a waste of good space to rewrite it all. Post them into a file if you have to so you can have it all together on e place.

It's great that you know you made this situation your reality. Now you can turn the tables around. What I am going to suggest to you now also goes out to awesomesause88. Make a promise to yourself to have no contact with him for the next 30 days unless he reaches out to you first. And don't sit around waiting for him to contact you either. That is counterproductive. Get back to living your life. You do have one don't you? If you don't use this opportunity to build one for yourself. That way, when you get him back you won't cling to him and repulse him like before.

Damn at this point I can write a whole book. Maybe Lanie might consider a co-authorship with me. That would be AWESOME.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

awesomesauce88 wrote:

I do not want anyone else that is how I feel if the law works why should I have to compromise what I want? You are now asking me to go with the idea of having someone else possibly when the law states that I can have whatever it is I want? Then it really isn't the law is it? I shouldn't have to compromise my wants to make the law work. Then I am not getting what I want and the law is invalid is it not?

by Cheriesymone
I indersatnd perfectly what you are saying. I myself feel really good with visualization and things and then I feel awful again. I trying to work on this as well. I am not sure why yor situation happened however. I would love to see what everyone else has to say as to why that occurred.

Who the hell told you to compromise anything? I'm sure I have not told you this. If that is the only message you have gleamed from my countless advice here, then you are not listening to me. I never tell others to compromise. Do you want to know why? Because I did it for years and it got me nowhere. Now I go after exactly what I want. No compromise whatsoever. You NEED distance from this this dude and you refuse to see this. Myself and others are offering you ways in which you can go about doing this. No one here has told you to compromise yourself. We have told you to love yourself and go on with living your live and being the best that you can be. Am I really wasting my time with you awesomesauce88?

Honestly the friends with benefits relationship you have with him is already a compromise, because it is not what you want. You want him as your boyfriend and possibly husband one day. Having sex with him and letting him come and go, figurative speaking for those who get the pun, is a serious compromise. This is why I told you to stop doing it. It has not gotten you what you want up to this point and it never will.

The Law Of Attraction is only invalid if you make it so. You are making something that is truly simple, complicated. You can have this guy, but not the way you are going about doing it. Your thoughts, feelings emotions are driving him away into the arms of other women. And I'll say it again, dating other guys does not mean you jump into to bed with them. Dating other guys does not mean you are telling the Universe that you no longer love him and do not want him back in your life. You need to get what I'm saying. Truly!!!

Cheriesymone's situation occurred because she is the creator and the manifestor of it. She stated that clearly in her post. Now she knows what not to do. At least I hope she does.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.