emmiline wrote:

Happyjan wrote:

Hi all!
I love this forum & Lanie for putting us all together this way!
What a blessing!
Anyway I just have a question about the technique everyone uses.
How does everyone feel connected to their guy/girl during the visualization?
Does everyone see themselves in the scene like watching it on a movie screen or just your significant other? From what I've learnt about loa I have to see it through my eyes so I don't see myself. Sort of like he's standing in front of me. Do you visualise his whole body or just his face?
I would love the opinion of others & what they see. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Thankyou! xoxo

 
Hi Happyjan, great to have you here with us!

How does everyone feel connected to the guy during the visualization? Sometimes if im feeling very strong emotions, the point where my target turns to look at me is 'automatic', like he is really there interacting with me of his own accord. Since Lanie advised me here to try visualizing from the heart, i am practising this by picturing a golden swirl of light from my heart carrying my emotions and love to his heart. It also envelopes us while he is talking to me. The light is something i came up with to help me as i am highly visual.
Does everyone see themselves..like watching it on a movie screen? No, you have to be immersed in this. Just as if it was happening in reality. In my experience do not look at yourself and your target as a third party.
Do you visualize his whole body or just his face? I have a specific target so tend to visualize his whole body. Again i am highly visual so this comes naturally to me, replicating his movements, nuances, hearing his voice, remembering his smell .. i am quite good at recreating him in my mind.

Great advice Emmiline!  I love it that you are using your heart to send and carry emotions and you automatically knew that the swirl of light would carry the frequencies.  I didn't mention it to you but you are instinctively correct.  xoxoxoxo

Happyjan wrote:

Hi all!
I love this forum & Lanie for putting us all together this way!
What a blessing!
Anyway I just have a question about the technique everyone uses.
How does everyone feel connected to their guy/girl during the visualization?
Does everyone see themselves in the scene like watching it on a movie screen or just your significant other? From what I've learnt about loa I have to see it through my eyes so I don't see myself. Sort of like he's standing in front of me. Do you visualise his whole body or just his face?
I would love the opinion of others & what they see. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
Thankyou! xoxo

I remember a story from Dr. Joe "Mr. Fire" Vitale. One guy was complaining to him that the law of attraction does not work. He went on to explain that he worked on manifesting a red Mercedes and his neighbor bought on a few weeks later. So Joe asked him to explained how he did his visualizations. Turns out he saw it on a movie screen. He did not immerse himself in the picture and actually saw himself driving the Mercedes. But Joe made it clear that he did manifest what he envision.

So ladies put yourself in the picture, if you can see your guy, feel that he is with you.

Best Regards,
Shana Jahsinta Walters.

Alikhy09 wrote:

Hello all, so I just had a quick question. When doing this method is it always better to have no contact with the guy and let him come to you? I mean is it always better to just let him call or text you first no matter what?

I don't know the circumstances but I would say yes let him contact you.  You are already "contacting" him during your visualizations.  No need to chase him!  :-)

So i texted him and he doesn't want to sleep together anymore and said he doesn't want a relationship with me. Now at first one would think this is bad yes very bad . BUT he said he feels like we don't get to know each other when we do this. He said that based on how he feels now he doesn't feel like we could have a relationship. He said he could settle down with me a live a decent lifestyle. Again sounds very bad. However i got several things on my side. 1) he wants to get to know me again and doesn't want to make it about sex 2) he said he still loves me alot so much he cannot let me go and will always want to protect me. He said he is not in love with me but how can he be when he doesn't know me. This I think could be a good turn around to what i want. So yes in a way i am glad i sent a text to see how he is doing. I am still going to do the technique for sure. I feel happy i feel like this really puts the ball in my court for him to see how awesome i am.

Last edited by awesomesauce88 (2/05/2016 9:33 pm)

I feel like we need to remove the sex to get emotionally close. He said he loves me and doesn't like seeing me with anyone else. He said he doesn't see a relationship. I know this can change. He also said that he just wants to go with the flow. I like how he wants to get to know me again.that means we can build a strong bond. I did ask the universe for that.