Jim Chien Beige wrote:

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Jim Chien Beige wrote:

 
Since we broke up, he contacted me. Always. And now this.
Also, he told a friend that he doesn't want anything to do with me.
I really don't get it.

When did he say he wants nothing to do with you? Was it after he was flirting with the girl? Then it is a simple "pft" moment. He'll be back.
Was it before? Then why is he contacting you so much? He obviously does not mean it. Either that or the technique is working in your favour. Just keep trying.

 
I don't know when but it was before this girl.
What should I do? I'm writing a letter for closure. He has to know that he hurt me. And he owes me money and I want it back.

 

Nooooooooooooo! sweetie Do not send any letters right now! You're mad and distraught. Please please give it a few days before you do anything! Do not let this guy throw up off your game girlie!! I think you're forgetting you have fucking superhuman powers you can contact his ass and make him do things! Please please remember that!! Don't take a couple steps back you move fucking forward even if you have to throw yourself forward! You're a strong women with a strong support group!! Pick yourself up and dust off your shoulders and just know that this shit that you " believe is real" is not real"!!!! You're true reality is the one you fucking choose!! This guy obviously is out of his mind!

My opinion would be to Neville Goddard's revision. Shake it off this moment and revise it.
when he said he wanted nothing to do with you. revise it to what you wanted, he needs you
Revise the scenario with the girl. Visualize him walking past the girl, speaking to you all night and asking you on a date.
Neville states that revision is very powerful and also when you revise the situation you prevent situations like those in the future. If you do not revise the situation and react you will keep experiencing those situations in the future.
Revise it and live in the end. also remember Neville says defy reality and stick to your wish fulfilled.

 

This might be the "echo" thing.
I am (and I think many ladies are/were) in a somewhat similar place. I was doing fine, feeling great etc. etc. He started contacting me again, and after a few times where I thought "this is it!" he just stopped contacting me. Or he would send a text, but when I reply, he ignores it, no answer back.

Could it be an echo of your previous thoughts? I often read about it, even in Neville`s lectures, that before the new reality materializes you`d see an echo of the old one.

Why after 2-3 (or whatever number) months? Who knows. Not even Nevill knew
Jim, take some time to feel this "defeated/deflated" phase through. Give it a day, or two, or however feels right for you. But know that one "downer" does not take back all the work you`ve already done. It doesnt calcel it. It`s just a bump on the road - a road you`ve been on for some time now. So after a short stop, off you go! And I`m gonna take my own advice too :D

Basilily wrote:

This might be the "echo" thing.
I am (and I think many ladies are/were) in a somewhat similar place. I was doing fine, feeling great etc. etc. He started contacting me again, and after a few times where I thought "this is it!" he just stopped contacting me. Or he would send a text, but when I reply, he ignores it, no answer back.

Could it be an echo of your previous thoughts? I often read about it, even in Neville`s lectures, that before the new reality materializes you`d see an echo of the old one.

Why after 2-3 (or whatever number) months? Who knows. Not even Nevill knew
Jim, take some time to feel this "defeated/deflated" phase through. Give it a day, or two, or however feels right for you. But know that one "downer" does not take back all the work you`ve already done. It doesnt calcel it. It`s just a bump on the road - a road you`ve been on for some time now. So after a short stop, off you go! And I`m gonna take my own advice too :D

He texted me an hour ago and he said: I´m going to call you cause I need to tell you 4 things. He is angry, so I blocked him from everythig and before that I texted him: I don´t have anything to talk about with you. Please pay me the money you owe me and that´s it. I´m sorry that things went out of control. 
I know him. He was gonna call me and insult me. 

Last edited by Jim Chien Beige (8/01/2016 11:36 am)

I disagree with EM ....... Keep your desire to be with Somone who will treat you with respect and love you unconditionally. He is not the only man out there. I am assuming you are young. But don't put all your eggs in one basket. Let a man pursue you and love you! Keep affirming you will find love and God will send you the man of your desire!