Hi Hermeshorse, thank you for the reply. I hadn't thought about it like that! Very bad habit I have of always assuming the worst of myself. It does explain why the men stood staring at me, and then did an about turn đ, actually it was quite amusing. My POI is tall, and I think he's handsome and sexy, has a sense of humour, and is very intelligent. None of the guys looked like him physically, but I didn't talk to them, so I can't say if they were intelligent, or funny. But it does make sense that I am vibrating at a certain energy to contact my POI, and would therefore attract other men who are on a similar wavelength. I suppose then I must chalk my experiences up to be indicators that my PW and BWD sessions are working đ. Thank you once again!! RubyLooToo