Hi mrstkg, no its not. I'm sorry if you felt ignored here, please let us know if you need advice or an ear. I have requested notification on this thread if someone replies and looking forward to seeing a response from you.
The reasons why members dont reply vary, so dont give up. I for one live in a 'developing' nation (read third world country in the Pacific), there is a difference of 13 hours in timezone between where i am and the US, so i may not be in sync most of the time here. Also life and work takes precedence for me daily.
Dont be discouraged, ive seen your comments on other threads, and i find you very knowledgable and encouraging of others here.