Posted by luvvthings  11/04/2017 12:21 pm | #1 |
I have been doing the technique on and off for around 9 months - since my guy and I broke up. Recently, some really devastating things happened; the death of a loved one, problems at work, moving to a new home while having the flu, breaking my thumb (this all happened within two weeks) and one night when I went out for drinks with my coworkers, I friended him on social media with a "what the hell" attitude because I was already like, the universe wouldn't just slam me again! Stupid me... he immediately changed his profile picture to him and a girl and did not accept the request.
Of course I decided to investigate and this girl is his girlfriend; I'm assuming the girl he left me for. My heart sank. And I was bombarded on her social media of pictures of her and him and his family. I hadn't checked his social media or spoken to him at all in the past 9 months, so this was a blow.
My first thought was, fine I give up. Even though I thought for sure that it was working, especially because the most insane signs were appearing to me telling me to keep going, he'll be back. Now, I don't know what to think of those signs, but I wanted to ask for insight from you all.
Should I give up? Let go? Or should I try again? More intensely? Now that I know someone else is definitely still in the mix and I can use that to my advantage?
One thing I should mention, is that during this time, a different ex who left me 8 years ago basically tried to leave his wife for me. Even though I never used the technique on him - he even tried calling me around 20 times a day until he gave up because I wouldn't answer. What am I doing wrong?? Lol why is it hitting other people but not the one I want?
Thanks everyone!
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Posted by Piper 11/04/2017 5:20 pm | #2 |
This may come across as a bit controversial, so I'd love to hear Lanie's opinion on this. I fully believe that we can have anything we desire, however, I also feel like there are some things that are just not meant to be. I know, this isn't how it's supposed to work. BUT, using my own situation, I've come to see how this could happen. I think there are some people that are just supposed to be together. We tend to not see it until that person comes crashing into your life.
I was 1,000% positive that my ex was the one I wanted and that we were even meant for each other, but I see now that I was just dependent upon him for my happiness, and I am so much better off now with my guy and that I can see where strange things happened to get us together. We are very in-tuned with each other and we can sense one another - we are very connected. I think part of this is due to using Lanie's techniques, but also because we are just perfect for each other.
I'm not saying this is the case for you, and I really struggled with being open to anyone else because I wanted what I wanted, but he wasn't right for me. So, that may be something to take into consideration.
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