Hola!

I was once so active here that I thought I'd share an update of what's been going on with me! As some of you may know,  I met a guy last summer that I was so excited about. However,  things didn't blossom the way I had started to dream of. Things came to a sudden stop and I found myself here and other forums gathering how to work on myself and attract the guy back into my life.  I also hoped to be able to help other people with the things I learned along the way!

Through my journey,  I used PW, BWD, Cut the Cord and the Love Spell but not limited to those. As I documented here,  I would have moments of success cracking through.  I explained how I could do BWD and start to receive messages from him as I completed the session or right after. Of course, I always desired more. I wanted things back on track to see where my connection with the guy would go.  

What ended up happening about 7 months ago is I had what I considered a crisis. Instead of doing techniques daily,  I fell back to doing it weekly. With my "crisis",  it just made the guy less of a priority. Quite frankly,  I had issues and I stopped doing techniques .  I accepted that they were powerful enough and I didn't have to keep doing them. I also started to care less and less about the guy.

A couple months into my "problems",  I accepted confirmation that the techniques 100% work. Mainly because as soon as I truly stopped doing them - it felt like I would never hear from him again.  That may seem odd. But,  as soon as I stopped lighting a fire under him - he stopped reaching out through the cracks for me. So it seemed.  But,  once again - I truly didn't care anymore. 

I came to a point where what I wanted was happiness. Complete and true happiness.  I started to study new life ideals.  I started to view life differently and realized that instead of going after complete and whole prosperity -  I was obsessed and desperate about one area.  The best way to explain it,  is that I now want every area of my life ok and ultimately -  I don't need a guy to be happy and it really shouldn't be a big deal if something doesn't work. It should be FUN to do these tools - not like a last ditch effort.   

Once I truly got to this place, I kid you not but the guy started to contact me all of the time.  He BEGS to see me. It is VERY obvious that I do laps in his mind. Once , I stepped out of my own way -  he started to do all of the stuff that I wanted. It's working.(always has been in the background) The gotcha gotcha is that the Av last year would have been thrilled but today's Av is indifferent.  :-) 

The biggest success for me is being happy and enjoying all of this.  I hope this helps someone.