So....I got a brief text.  Not sure how positive it was because I can't tell about texts.  Then nothing for the rest of the weekend.  But I had two times in which I was otherwise engaged that I felt overwhelming connection....like he was doing it to me  It feels so good to feel connected.  I am wondering though, if its me or him.  

Still a great feeling.  I'll take it.

As I read the posts here I feel a sense of desperation from these ladies instead of the confidence Lanie writes about.  I can feel in their posts and I can feel it in mine.  I am grateful to have discovered it so I can let it go.  Before I started this technique I didn't feel the desperation since the break up.  Now its back....gotta get my mojo back.