Posted by RelaxPls23 12/23/2016 1:59 pm | #1 |
So, I started doing PW on my ex of 3 months about 2 weeks ago. The 3rd time I did it before bed and right before I disconnected I told him to text me. When I woke up the next morning I had a text from him sent at 4am asking to meet up for a coffee. I met up with him and I was trying to be a little distant/friendly. The whole time he kept staring at me like he had something to say (I know all of his many faces and expressions) but when I asked him "Do you have something to say?" he'd just laugh a bit and then I'd chatter on about something inane - I was nervous ok.
But then he kept asking me to sit next to him and I finally relented. Once I sat next to him he immediately went in for cuddles, was holding my hand, had his hand in my hair etc. And he asked "Would it be bad if I kissed you?" and then wouldn't stop kissing me the entire time we were there even though I told him that he couldn't do that.
Now at the same time he was telling me "I don't want to say that I wanna start over" and "I don't want you to think I had a secret master plan for getting you here to meet for coffee" and when I asked him wtf he was going on about and doing he was all "Idk i'm just confused about life and feeling a little emotional right now"
I had to meet some people for dinner so I left. That was it.
Since then we haven't really talked about that meeting (was almost a week ago) and I've still been doing PW daily/sometimes twice a day. We've been speaking but it's been about arranging a time where we can Skype to talk about what was going on when we had coffee.
My confusion is - It says to go No Contact and to not talk about the relationship with the other person when you're doing PW. Does this still apply in my situation? I guess because he hasn't really come forward and said he wants to be with more or anything and has just left me super confused...
I'm not sure what I should be doing right now?? Any advice would be greatly appreciated