Snoopy828 wrote:

I'm curious if anyone has used this on a married man? Please save me the lectures .. if so what was the outcome?

I think a lot of us agreed before in another post that we don't involve ourselves in people's marriages. Not lecturing, but that may be why it's hard to find outcomes like these. I'll look through this forum and Veronica's to see if I can find anything that can help you.

DC wrote:

I would imagine that it takes longer, as the person would have financial attachments, a home, children maybe...but they would cave I think, eventually.

Yes. I was also thinking this - it would probably take a lot longer. But it's possible.

Snoopy828 wrote:

Thanks guys.... I do appreciate your help.
Something has ALWAYS told me HE is,my soul mate. ..no affair no texting...no drama.
Just these LONG wonderful glances...and playful touching when we do get a moment to say hi.
He's never told me he's unhappy...I can just tell by the way he looks at me!!

Honestly, I would tread lightly simply because karma is a very real thing and you don't want to do anything that could backfire. Focus on sending him love, very unconditional love and happiness and have him make the moves. It may take awhile because as DC said - there are many factors at play. However, it is not impossible and if you truly want him then focus on just the feelings right now. I would also maybe advise that when things begin with you two that he is separated from his wife - simply because you don't want to be strung along and be led on by false hope. Indigo has suggested before many times, so I'm going to repeat her: Read Lanie's 3rd book PP. It will help a lot, I believe. Especially in this situation.

Snoopy828 wrote:

Thanks guys.... I do appreciate your help.
Something has ALWAYS told me HE is,my soul mate. ..no affair no texting...no drama.
Just these LONG wonderful glances...and playful touching when we do get a moment to say hi.
He's never told me he's unhappy...I can just tell by the way he looks at me!!
  
  

  
  
What???  No lectures???  I think not.  

You want a soulmate and he probably just wants a side-piece because he's bored.  
If he cheats on her he'll cheat on you and you'll NEVER be able to trust him.  

So good luck with that.  

World's shortest lecture of facts you already knew.  

You're welcome.
  
  


 

Hi Snoopy828,
I agree with DC and Collie, people will use the technique however they want we cant control that.
And yes it makes sense that it might take the (married) man longer as his focus would be on his spouse and children.Having said that, you might need to consider that not everyone is the same and even though his feelings for you may develop he might conciously  decide to remain with his family despite it.