I've visualised other scenarios with him but this is the one I do most, I've been doing it since middle of October and last weekend was the first proper conversation we have had, where we have actually gotten past the how are you before he disappeared and stopped replying.
I used to do it every night Blue, but since just before Christmas I started getting the I don't want to do this feeling so now I just do it when I get the feeling I want to (I've posted about this feeling in one of my other posts). It's strange because since I started feeling like that, this is when things have really started happening for me with regards to ex coming back, other guys showing an interest etc!
I'm also very impatient LOL