Evey2222 wrote:

I am really sorry if this has already been posted - but when I searched I couldn't find anything to help me. So I need some advice from you lovely wise ladies.

I am so confused. Before I met A, I really wanted C back. But then I decided to give up and say either him or someone better, as you do, and then A came along. It was only 2 months but we had a really deep connection and we fell in love. He wasnt ready to commit, so the story ends...

I have been trying to attract A back, but sometimes in the back of my head I feel I want C back still. I am trying to clarify who treated me better, made a pros and cons list. But I am stuck, completely stuck. I do not know who I want to attract back! I know the technique works because it has been working. I have been focusing on A but C keeps creeping up in my mind. But I really fell for A. 

If someone could please give me a bitch slap to help me sort my head out then that would be lovely! I thought I was just holding onto C because he is in the army, I feel bad, but I can see a life with him. I can see a life with A too. I feel like just handing it all to the universe and saying please sort it out I have muddled it all up!!! 
   

  
  
Why you all write HELP in capital letters I don't know.
No one here can help you with your dilemma, you must
figure it out.  Flip a coin.  Make a list.  What is most
important to you.  Unless both of them is cool with you
having two BFs, you need to get unstuck and make a
decision.
  
  
 

Evey2222 wrote:

Yeah feel a bit like a melon for putting help now. Taken it off ha! It's hard though, I am just gonna be grateful for being able to attract them both and the techniques, I need to focus more on my life anyway. Its just hard when you've had a connection with someone for a while and then you build something with someone new, then the old one wants to come back and you want the new one. Just messes my head up a bit, I know I should be stronger but right now is a difficult time in my personal life let alone men coming along to confuse me! 
  

  
  
I wasn't trying to make you feel bad about saying HELP. 
It was funny to me.  Anyway maybe choose the one
that is going to make your life easier.  And consider
what will be best for your future, not just right now.
Which one has the potential to give you a better
life.
  
  
 

I agree with Indigo, make a list and truly think about the pros and cons of each man as well as what each can bring you in a relationship.

I've been in the same boat. I wouldn't want to send the universe mixed signals of being indesciveness (spelled that wrong lol) because you will attract more of that. Here's an idea I that I heard from somewhere, maybe it will help: get in a relaxed state and imagine, really feel and believe that both of them are proposing to you. Which one gives makes you feel more love? Is there one you would instantly say yes to or one that makes you hesitate a little? Now imagine there is a third person proposing such as your dream crush, the best looking, such as a celebrity. Would you still choose A or C? If not then I would focus on manifesting someone better...and don't be surprised if one of both of them come crawling back if you choose that option