Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com / Does distance matter when doing PW or BWD

**Posted by pisces89** 2/12/2017 8:40 am

Hi Everyone,
I've read BWD and have been doing the visualization it described, as well as the PW meditation i bought from Lanie's site. It's only been 3 days and I guess I'm not sure how quickly it's supposed to work. The guy I'm using it on travels for work and is far away (me in NYC and him working in Korea last week but now he's in Colorado for the weekend before going back to Korea). We've been seeing each other about 4 months. Does distance matter or impact him 'feeling' what I send to him?

I'm usually able to tap into my third I and really feel connected to him-one time I actually had a problem ending the session b/c I was feeling supper connected. I don't know if anyone has experienced something similar. This morning I initially had trouble connecting to him and then I 'got it' and was able to really feel him holding my hand, hugging me, kissing me, and I told him what I wanted him to say to me. When I finished, the song playing on my tv was something to do with Australia, which is where the guy is from, so that's a sign, but I haven't actually heard from him since I've started. Is this normal? Is he just being stubborn? Should I still do no contact? He's hinted at wanting me to contact him more

Last edited by pisces89 (2/12/2017 8:46 am)

**Posted by TLC** 2/12/2017 9:01 am

Distance doesn't matter at all. You're doing energy work here so even if he sat on the moon you'll still be able to reach him.
Everything is normal...just keep doing PW and BWD and let him initiate the first contact -when and how has he hinted that he wants you to contact him more?
If you have trouble disconnecting after PW do the CC meditation.

**Posted by pisces89** 2/12/2017 9:10 am

TLC wrote:
Distance doesn't matter at all. You're doing energy work here so even if he sat on the moon you'll still be able to reach him.
Everything is normal...just keep doing PW and BWD and let him initiate the first contact -when and how has he hinted that he wants you to contact him more?
If you have trouble disconnecting after PW do the CC meditation.

He told me about 2 weeks ago that he wants me to call/message him more. I tend to not really reach out first, I follow his lead and I'm used to guys messaging me first/more often, but with his job hours being crazy there are times we both don't message. I'm pretty reserved about being 'mushy' over text etc so sometimes he felt like he really has to pull teeth to get me to message him when he's out of town. I don't want him to feel I don't like him or am ignoring him

**Posted by jellyb** 2/12/2017 9:45 am

Message him, definitely! Especially if he says he would like to hear from you more often. 3 days is definitely not much time but it will continue to seep into him as you do more PW. Also, hello from another member in NYC!

**Posted by pisces89** 2/12/2017 10:17 am

jellyb wrote:
Message him, definitely! Especially if he says he would like to hear from you more often. 3 days is definitely not much time but it will continue to seep into him as you do more PW. Also, hello from another member in NYC!

Hello fellow NYer! And thanks I think I'll reach out and keep doing PW in the background. Hopefully he'll start saying some of the things he is in my visualizations.