Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com / Love spell made him distant?

**Posted by Justine** 3/16/2017 1:13 pm

UPDATE: we talked a little this morning and he told me that the reason why he gave me the silent treatment was because he was upset and he needed space. (I didn't really say anything to make him upset haha. He's being a princess).

I told him it was ok. And that I would give him the space he needs. And said have a good day!

Guess some things are working on his mind mahaha.

Last edited by Justine (3/16/2017 1:14 pm)

**Posted by Avaelle** 3/16/2017 1:52 pm

Wait, did you ask him why he was giving you the silent treatment?

**Posted by Justine** 3/16/2017 1:53 pm

no no ahha ! he brought him up

**Posted by Avaelle** 3/16/2017 2:12 pm

Whew! Thank goodness because it's not good to ask a guy why he hadn't been calling or applying any type of pressure. Just airy conversation, happiness, fun and love is good.

**Posted by Justine** 3/16/2017 2:33 pm

Exactly He has been mad at me a lot lately for no reasons. All the time I'm responding with happiness, reassuring him etc making jokes etc etc.

That's why I told him this morning "I'll give you the space you need. enjoy the sun!! "

I'll let him be grumpy alone in his corner hihi. While I enjoy life ;)

**Posted by Oasiscalm** 3/16/2017 6:10 pm

Avaelle wrote:
Whew! Thank goodness because it's not good to ask a guy why he hadn't been calling or applying any type of pressure. Just airy conversation, happiness, fun and love is good.

If someone is ignoring you then I would say you have every right to ask what's up. I agree don't add pressure and don't nag but you should never feel like you can't ask a question. What kind of relationship does that make for if you feel you have to censor yourself and act like you don't care.

Guys don't like nagging. But if you approach them in a calm manner and ask questions the right way you will get a response.

**Posted by lalinha** 3/17/2017 3:16 pm

I did the love spell. He totally withdraw from me.
he always used to start conversation and text me in the middle of the night.
After the spell and PW constantly this happened i feel like he is avoiding me.
At the same time he still visualize my stories from instagram.
With 10 days of NC , yesterday was the last day of the love spell.
this morning he add me on Facebook, without any message.

My heart started beating so fast!!! It's working!!!

**Posted by Avaelle** 3/17/2017 3:59 pm

Oasiscalm wrote:
Avaelle wrote:
Whew! Thank goodness because it's not good to ask a guy why he hadn't been calling or applying any type of pressure. Just airy conversation, happiness, fun and love is good.
If someone is ignoring you then I would say you have every right to ask what's up. I agree don't add pressure and don't nag but you should never feel like you can't ask a question. What kind of relationship does that make for if you feel you have to censor yourself and act like you don't care.

Guys don't like nagging. But if you approach them in a calm manner and ask questions the right way you will get a response.

I have quite a few men calling and texting and el. The ones that text "no answer?" "what took you so long to call back?" annoy the heck out of me. I don't want anyone stuck up under me all of the time and pressuring me to reply within a set time frame etc. I personally wouldn't want to be that annoying woman to a guy that I was actually interested in. That's why I personally wouldn't ask a guy anything like that. I don't want to seem desperate.

**Posted by Indigo** 3/18/2017 12:00 am

lalinha wrote:
I did the love spell. He totally withdraw from me.
he always used to start conversation and text me in the middle of the night.
After the spell and PW constantly this happened i feel like he is avoiding me.
At the same time he still visualize my stories from instagram.
With 10 days of NC , yesterday was the last day of the love spell.
this morning he add me on Facebook, without any message.

My heart started beating so fast!!! It's working!!!

Welcome Lalinha!

Glad it's all working out for you

**Posted by emmiline** 3/18/2017 4:56 pm

lalinha wrote:
I did the love spell. He totally withdraw from me.
he always used to start conversation and text me in the middle of the night.
After the spell and PW constantly this happened i feel like he is avoiding me.
At the same time he still visualize my stories from instagram.
With 10 days of NC , yesterday was the last day of the love spell.
this morning he add me on Facebook, without any message.

My heart started beating so fast!!! It's working!!!

Wonderful! Keep us updated ok?