Lanie Stevens "Empowering Women" - http://laniestevens.com / I did the whispering technique for fun and...(UPDATE)

**Posted by mrstkg** 4/17/2017 9:28 pm

A guy I met over the summer (never went out) texted me out of nowhere. Not just that he sent me a flower emoji. I always tell my POI to bring me flowers when we go back out. This random guy ALSO still has a picture of me, he showed me when I asked how could he possibly remember my face. I know we always ask this but WHY do others respond?! Ugh! Lol. But at least we can see the effects. Just excited for the POI to respond.

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**Posted by mrstkg** 4/17/2017 9:42 pm

He just now asked me out. Lol

**Posted by mrstkg** 4/17/2017 10:22 pm

Now the other guy (the one I posted about the other day, the one in my dream) just invited me to an activist event. Lol!

**Posted by Jen** 4/17/2017 10:26 pm

Wow, that's incredible.

I seriously wish I knew why they run away and hide.

My one has ceased all form of contact exactly a week ago today.

Last week, he was all over me and since then, dead silence.

It really messes with your mind and I think we have every right to question them why they do that.

It's just mean.

In my case, I feel he misled me by telling me how much he loves me, wants to move back in with me and got very intimate with me only to disappear without any reasonable explanation.

That's not ok, in my opinion but I love him so will be patient.

**Posted by gini** 4/17/2017 10:37 pm

I have the same question. I imagined my POI sending me a text message saying that he cant get me out of his mind and theres this other guy who texted me when i was doing my visualisation and he wrote that i missed you a lot during the weekend. What i think is that our POIs get these messages but they're struggling not to send it to us by putting some resistance.I doubt that they will be able to hold back for so long. depends on your POI.. mine is very stubborn !
I think others respond because we send out very positive vibrations.. we become more attractive to others.. I've felt it.. Its crazy.. Go for the activist event and have fun !! Im sure your POI will bring you flowers very soon

**Posted by AnnanWater** 4/17/2017 11:19 pm

Which video (Agnes I'm assuming) did you follow?

**Posted by mrstkg** 4/17/2017 11:33 pm

I know that hurts Jen. My POI did the SAME thing before I started all this. It hurt my feelings I was so confused (we didn't have sex but we were intimate and texted me telling me how much he enjoyed my company). I try to mostly just see him loving me and me loving him. Focus a lot on LOVE. Though when your sexual you really want that to.

Jen wrote:
Wow, that's incredible.

I seriously wish I knew why they run away and hide.

My one has ceased all form of contact exactly a week ago today.

Last week, he was all over me and since then, dead silence.

It really messes with your mind and I think we have every right to question them why they do that.

It's just mean.

In my case, I feel he misled me by telling me how much he loves me, wants to move back in with me and got very intimate with me only to disappear without any reasonable explanation.

That's not ok, in my opinion but I love him so will be patient.

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**Posted by mrstkg** 4/17/2017 11:46 pm

Thanks Gini! I feel that too. I think all these "others" is creating the path for the POI.I also think he's stubborn too. We're both very fixed signs.

gini wrote:
I have the same question. I imagined my POI sending me a text message saying that he cant get me out of his mind and theres this other guy who texted me when i was doing my visualisation and he wrote that i missed you a lot during the weekend. What i think is that our POIs get these messages but they're struggling not to send it to us by putting some resistance.I doubt that they will be able to hold back for so long. depends on your POI.. mine is very stubborn !
I think others respond because we send out very positive vibrations.. we become more attractive to others.. I've felt it.. Its crazy.. Go for the activist event and have fun !! Im sure your POI will bring you flowers very soon

**Posted by mrstkg** 4/17/2017 11:59 pm

Yes it was hers. I seen a post that mentioned rub off technique so I looked that up and came across the whispering technique

AnnanWater wrote:
Which video (Agnes I'm assuming) did you follow?

**Posted by Anti-Social** 4/18/2017 12:22 am

Wow thats great to hear!! My POI is really friendly/sweet/affectionate (gives me lots of hugs) in person yet ignores my existence on social media, very confusing/frustrating so I might have to check out this whispering technique. How after do you do it before seeing results??