So after using lanies methods to attract someone,  I did.  I fell hard and fast.  You can refer to my other post about using LOA and lanies methods to attract someone new.

Anyway,  he was seemingly what I had been waiting for.  Sadly he turned out to be a womanizer.  Long story short,  while he was gaming me ,  talking about how he was ready to make me his future wife and go on vacations , baring his poor little hurt soul to me,  he was also chatting up a young stripper on Instagram.  (I found this out after the fact).  We just went on a vacation together and finally had sex.  Afterwards he texted often and everything seemed fine.  Then he disappeared for two weeks and I come to find he took this stripper on vacation! I was GUTTED.   We weren’t exclusive yet but still, it hurts to know he was doing this the entire time. I called him out on disappearing but learned only after about his stripper vacation so he doesn’t know I know.  He never apologized or acknowledged me calling him out so we havent spoken in awhile. And I presume this is over.  Obviously  This guy is a true womanizer to his core.  But he’s been in a couple long term relationships since I’ve known him (approx 4 years - as casual acquaintances).

I guess I’m wondering if ts possible to create the version of him you want.  Not sure why I’d even want him back -  I’ll have to check my self esteem and self worth and get back to you on that one.  Right now it’s more of a selfish reason,  just so I can get him hooked and then dump him Unceremoniously.  He gamer me now it’s time to game him.

Has anyone had luck changing a player/ womanizer into a decent human who can commit to one woman Or is this a lost cause?
Please don’t judge me for wanting to mess with his head a bit,  I’m still wounded.