We broke up a few months ago because he wasn't ready for a relationship/commitment.

I started using PW and BWD immediately, and he would send me messages saying he missed me and wanted to stay friends. I told him we couldnt be friends, and that I wanted more. 

I continued to use these techniques and he asked me on a date but again, he still wasn't ready to commit. I then started Lanies Love Spell and have completed the first 2 week cycle. (Doing BWD and PW in between) Since the Love Spell he has made NO CONTACT and seems more distant than ever. It has now been almost 1month of no contact and it seems to have got worse since the love spell?? 

In the meanwhile, I am trying to move on and "let go" of the outcome, by dating new people etc even though my true desire is to get my ex back. 

Any advice why he seems to be further away than ever now?