Hello all! 
I am considering getting the new CYM bundle as well, as I sometimes don't feel like being restrained to the PW or BDW, but usually like to have still some guidance.
For those of you who already got them, could you let me know how long is the actual guided part? I saw that some of the meditations of the bundle are easily 40 to 60 min, Lanie specifies that the extra time at the end is for when we want to continue the visualization, but I'd like to know how long is the part before that :-)

Thank you! :-) 

Hi there!

Great to hear about the shift in your mindset! I love to do EFTs too, especially the Love Magnet, or Amazing Day, or Release your inner Badass... I feel Brad Yates as a very warming voice and friendly appearance, I always end up smiling back when he smiles in the videos, definitely feel always calmer and happy after some of his videos 
Have you his visualization/meditation too? It is about sending out love (to the world in general), and lasts only about 10min, but I find it really nice, makes me feel awesome and my heart full of love afterwards. 

For CTC, I may be able to understand your worry, I was at the beginning a bit wondering if it might impact the connection with my POI despite the information from Lanie that it is completely ok. 
But reading about it more on forums, and also considering that in the end, your mind has the power of creation, it has only the impact you give it - it cannot do harm if you see it as a way to only take back these feelings of neediness. I usually like to see it as taking back the impact of the nagging thoughts that may be popping into my head if I think too much of him, of canceling these "neediness" waves if I felt I sent some, and just leaving him with loving thoughts, and fondness for me when I release him.
I find that it does help a lot, I am usually more at peace afterwards, and he doesn't jump so much into my thoughts. Not like I don't have anymore feelings or anything, just simply I don't feel this feeling of lack or his absence like before the meditation. And to my understanding, that helps on their side to give more space between you for him to actually feel your absence and miss you more - if you are not constantly focusing on him, then he doesn't feel like he has your constant attention, and therefore can miss you more. Does that make sense?

I like your idea of journaling, that actually sounds rea

Hi @sk721!

How has it been going for you since completing the Love Spell? Would be super interesting to read some updates! 

sk721 wrote:

kiwi_gaoth wrote:

Hi there! I am new in posting on this forum, but have been reading the different stories around here since a couple of weeks, while getting familiar with LOA and Lanie's techniques.

I am also trying to manifest something special for Vday, though not a date with my POI, rather to receive a bouquet of nice flowers or even a card. 

I had a question though: reading around, it seems that we shouldn't try to have sort of time restriction in our visualization, for that may actually hinder the results as it is harder to let go. 
What is your opinion on this, or how do you handle it? 

Thank you for any reply and advice! 
Can't wait to hear about your beautiful dates with your loves 
 

Hi!! That's a good question. In my opinion, having a deadline can be stressful. But so far, I am doing good. I am naturally waiting for the date and not being super needy. Also, I have this mindset that, hey if it doesn't happen on VDAY, it's OK! There were valentine's days where I did not have a date and I lived lmao. I feel letting go and having that mindset has kept me calm. I'm just having fun with it. I do visualize the date daily, but again, I am pretty calm about it. In your case, don't worry about how you are going to get a card or flowers, just see yourself with them. Just visualize it and be grateful that someone gifted you and how grateful you feel that they thought about you. Also, you should check out this video by Veronica. She might be more helpful than me Q&A Part 9 - How To Manifest Under A Deadline.  LOL.    

Hi sk721! 
Thanks a lot for the video link, I watched the whole thing, and found it quite inspiring  
I've decided to visualize