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11/12/2016 7:43 pm  #1


Beyond discouraged

So I've been going pw on a married coworker
for months...with little movement 
Then I met a younger guy and decided to use him as my "test subject ".
I didn't know he was a recovering alcoholic. .and just about EVERYTHING I said to him during pw he repeated.
Well I fell for him.
Now he's been sober for 2 weeks due to a major health issue.
And won't even speak to me.
HE has cut off all contact. I'm heartbroken.  HE was an amazing guy and I truly enjoyed spending time with him.  PLEASE please please my lovelies ANY advice???  I want him back in my life!!

Last edited by Snoopy828 (11/12/2016 8:09 pm)

11/13/2016 12:55 am  #2


Re: Beyond discouraged

Hi snoopy828,
I'm sorry to hear this.

It sounds like he really needs space while he is going through this.


All advice given is intended in the best interest of whomever I may be replying to & my opinions may not necessarily reflect those of the wider community on the forum.

 

11/13/2016 1:15 am  #3


Re: Beyond discouraged

He's dealing with both alcoholism and a major health problem, of course the last thing on his mind is him being in a relationship. This is how certain people, especially men deal with major challenges in life.
In terms of PW with the married co-worker, it's probably not working because he's happily married. I, personally would not set my sights on a married man. There's such a thing as karma.

Last edited by Marz (11/13/2016 1:21 am)

11/13/2016 5:19 am  #4


Re: Beyond discouraged

Thank you ladies...I unfortunately creeped on his Facebook. ..and he's seeing someone. ..so obviously that's not the case.
As far as the other guy he's not happily married. .. I only pw him for us to talk.
Nothing sexual.

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11/13/2016 9:37 am  #5


Re: Beyond discouraged

Even if he is seeing someone, that doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't need time to himself and he isn't taking it. It's never a good idea to creep on a guy's Facebook. You're guaranteed to find something upsetting because that's what your intention is.
In terms of the married coworker - why go months doing the technique when the man is married and it isn't working anyway? That's inviting a messy situation into your life and drama. It's your choice, but not something I would encourage anyone to ever do.
In terms of the younger guy, if he's cut all contact and this is something that seems fairly new, plus he has issues with alcohol and dating other women, ask yourself if he's worth the energy of using this technique with and attracting back into your life. 
 

11/13/2016 11:55 am  #6


Re: Beyond discouraged

So sorry you're going through this, one thing I've learned in the last nine months of using RS is that it always works, even when contact is minimal. In this situation I suggest you send him heart energy and healing while he's going through this difficult time and remember that his absence has nothing to do with you.


"The best way to predict your future is to create it." - Abraham Lincoln 

11/13/2016 12:53 pm  #7


Re: Beyond discouraged

Thank you guys I will continue to send him heart energy and love!!!

     Thread Starter

11/13/2016 1:35 pm  #8


Re: Beyond discouraged

Don't forget to send yourself some good heart energy and love too, dear <3

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