He's dealing with both alcoholism and a major health problem, of course the last thing on his mind is him being in a relationship. This is how certain people, especially men deal with major challenges in life.
In terms of PW with the married co-worker, it's probably not working because he's happily married. I, personally would not set my sights on a married man. There's such a thing as karma.

Last edited by Marz (11/13/2016 1:21 am)

Even if he is seeing someone, that doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't need time to himself and he isn't taking it. It's never a good idea to creep on a guy's Facebook. You're guaranteed to find something upsetting because that's what your intention is.
In terms of the married coworker - why go months doing the technique when the man is married and it isn't working anyway? That's inviting a messy situation into your life and drama. It's your choice, but not something I would encourage anyone to ever do.
In terms of the younger guy, if he's cut all contact and this is something that seems fairly new, plus he has issues with alcohol and dating other women, ask yourself if he's worth the energy of using this technique with and attracting back into your life. 
 

Thank you guys I will continue to send him heart energy and love!!!