Hi lovelies!

Lanie, thank you so much for inviting us here!  (happy)

I puchased your 3 RS books when they first came out, and tried out the secret technique:

I earnestly put it into practice straight away. The result was that my target would verbalize his fantasies to me, and most times it would be what i imagined us doing. So from my experience i would say it definitly does work.

I had difficulty actually getting into a relationship with him though, i dont know why this was harder for me to manifest. Try as hard as i did, i couldnt manifest a situation with him telling me he wanted us to be a couple or similar. I also have a really big problem trying to curb my mind from wandering, and i have no experience with meditation.

The creation of this forum is timely for me as i decided to practice the technique again this year and i was literally googling forums just yesterday to check if anyone was sharing their experiences!

Im looking forward to more people sharing their stories and Lanie, i cannot wait to try out your mp3s   
. I hope someone can help me with my setbacks.

emmiline wrote:

Hi lovelies!

Lanie, thank you so much for inviting us here! (happy)

I puchased your 3 RS books when they first came out, and tried out the secret technique:

I earnestly put it into practice straight away. The result was that my target would verbalize his fantasies to me, and most times it would be what i imagined us doing. So from my experience i would say it definitly does work.

I had difficulty actually getting into a relationship with him though, i dont know why this was harder for me to manifest. Try as hard as i did, i couldnt manifest a situation with him telling me he wanted us to be a couple or similar. I also have a really big problem trying to curb my mind from wandering, and i have no experience with meditation.

The creation of this forum is timely for me as i decided to practice the technique again this year and i was literally googling forums just yesterday to check if anyone was sharing their experiences!

Im looking forward to more people sharing their stories and Lanie, i cannot wait to try out your mp3s
. I hope someone can help me with my setbacks.

I'm so happy the techniques worked so well for you and that you're going to begin doing them again.  I hope this forum will be empowering to women and the information will be beneficial to everyone who is using LOA to manifest.

I don't think you had "setbacks" really.  I think maybe you just stopped manifesting due to probably a variety of reasons.  1)  It's easy to forget to create your life because when everything is going smoothly you don't need to;  and  2) when things aren't going well you've gotten out of the habit of manifesting.  You obviously were having success because he was telling you what you were visualizing him saying and that's awesome.  You can do it again!

The most important reason you hear him tell you what you want to hear is so that it evokes emotion in you.  If it is simply "let's have lunch" then you are less likely to manifest it because unless you're starving to death lunch won't create a passion inside your soul.  The next time you try the technique focus your attention on opening the area around your heart and feel some emotion like gratitude, love, joy, peace....whatever emotion will almost bring a tear to your eye....when you are using the technique.  When you do that the person you are sending to will also feel what you are feeling.  

I'm so glad my invitation to join the forum was so timely.  I hope readers will be interactive on this site so we can all help each other create fulfilling, wonderful lives.  It was my desire to help the "sisterhood" when I wrote the books and it is my driving force today.  I should have the MP3s out with a couple of weeks and I will post the link on this website as well as my http://laniestevensauthor.com website.  I've had so many requests for them I should have done them a long time ago.  

Big Hugs & Love,
Lanie

 

awesomesauce88 wrote:

Question
So I have been trying to get him back for about almost 2 years. Last year around February I started loa after I found out he was in another relationship. I focused ihad nothing to lose. They then broke up in March and we started talking again and then he kept saying this won't work then maybe then friends with benefits and then in December was romantic and now no. So because it has been so long is that a problem? I want him back I don't want anyone else and we do control who we are with right? I want to manifest more then just friends with benefits sex I want to manifest a relationship filled with love. Like we were in the beginning. I want that deep love he had for me to come back I want us to confide in each other with everything a deep connection. Can I still do that? Also can this work on friendships? What do you suggest with finances?

 

Girl, I would have to write a book to answer all of this in one response.  LOL  So let's address the guy.  You've had him once, lost him and then got him back.  Use the technique I taught you in the "Pussy Whip" book (if that's the one you read) and visualize what it was like in the beginning.  That's all you have to do is "recreate the feelings between the two of you during that time as if it were in the present".  Then stop worrying about the outcome.  If you know there is a package arriving in the mail, have the tracking number and know it WILL arrive you don't fret over it daily.  Manifesting is exactly the same!!!!

Big Hugs,
Lanie

NorthernGirl wrote:

I've been in love with my man for nearly 4 years. We're as close friends as anyone can possibly be but he has always resisted a relationship with me. He tells me I'm not his type, that he doesn't want to ruin the best friendship he's ever had in his life. He has always also dreamed of being a father (he's childless at 42), and I'm 47......so there's that.

Anyway, have been practising the technique from Book 1 for about 10 days. No results as yet but then I do realise I have a lot of resistance which may be slowing the process. 

I'd love to hear some stories about how the target felt all of the feelings we wanted them too before coming forward. 

 

I hope other women will chime in with their stories to help you.  I don't know what you have been visualizing in the 10 days since reading my book but whatever it is it will intensify his feelings for you.  Sounds like he is rationalizing (wanting kids) while his heart may be telling him something different.  Keep using my technique until it becomes natural and a habit for you.  Focus not only on him but on a life with a man (without putting his face on him) who loves, adores and wants the same things you do in life.  Best of luck!  Please let us know how it goes.  

Big Hugs,
Lanie

Saralou wrote:

HI Larnie,
Thank you for the invite, you actually caught me at a time when I felt like throwing in the towel. All because I have been so busy and exhausted and my manifestations have been too few and far between. Your email reminded me 'IT WORKS' and I need to get back on it right now. 
Its been on and off for 13 years with this guy and now its time to land him once and for all. I'm looking forward to reading everyone's version and looking out for happy endings.
love from Sara 
UK 
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Welcome Sara!  Since there are no coincidences I think you manifested, maybe without realizing it, a support group to encourage you not to give up.  I'm so glad you joined!  xoxoxoxoxo