So me and my ex have been on and off for 3 years now. We met up in february for the first time in about 10 months. Then after a week he messaged me saying we can't do this again and that he doesn't want to get involved. One of my passions is travelling, last month I went travelling around Europe. We were still friends on Facebook. He liked my profile picture and then a couple of days later deleted me as a friend.  When I got back, I sent him a message saying I'd like to meet up with him, he agreed and to my surprise asked to see me that night. I am a very positive person, I follow law of attraction daily. I have had many successes with it, winning money, jobs etc. I have been doing the love spell, pussy whip too. After meeting up and he dropped me back home, he initiated the kiss goodbye and told me to message him.  We spoke over text a few times but it was always me who initiated it. I saw him again last week, we were both quite drunk and he said that he goes a while without thinking about me but then thinks about me again and wants to see me but when he does i put him down. He also said I am too full on and need to chill out. I don't put him down in a horrible way, its more witty banter but i think he is quite overly sensitive. After that night he didn't message me first again.. I sent him a message basically saying whats going on to no reply and then the next night I was getting quite angry so I said, are you really that much of a coward you can't just say. Then he replied saying " The answer is do one". I can't believe it, I feel heartbroken. Surley somebody who loves you/ has feelings for you wouldn't say that? What do i do? Someone please help.