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Success Stories » Don't ever think it's impossible » 2/12/2019 10:37 am

madone87
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Sunshine&Dreams wrote:

madone87 wrote:

Thank you for your input.  What I need to do now is just focusing on myself, so to speak? I do love myself but sometimes I got to think why this thing happened to me. I mean we used to be so good, so sweet and somehow it turns bitter down the road. I asked for a clear and honest answer but yet I didn't get any. Some of them say stop asking if he loves you because that's needy. So what should I do? 

They say we can manifest anything yet I feel so many resistance. How focusing on myself will actually change the scenario and he eventually comes back by himself?

See, that's where that resistance comes in. I say this from dealing with it myself so I hold no judgment or anything. We can say we love ourselves, and maybe we do for one moment or one instance, but as I've noticed about myself, then I start going down that same resistance path. Which is me putting labels into actions of another, or thinking why did they do this, that, etc. Yet that is showing us where we need work. Take my one issue is not focusing my time better. So then my person doesn't prioritize me, and I see it as not being important to him. But it's because I am the one not focusing on me. That's me pushed out (where that idea comes in). Whatever he does to you, there is something in your life, which you're not doing for yourself, and where that self-love comes in. If they aren't prioritizing you then ask where you're not prioritizing yourself. If they are saying they're busy, then where are you not managing your time better? If they aren't focusing on you, where aren't you focusing on yourself? That's why we gotta work on ourselves.

Yes, focus on yourself, first. You even said it. You reached out, he said he was busy. You're still focused on him, so he's still focused on him, hence the resistance. That resistance you feel tells you that yes, working on yourself right now is what you should be doing. Don't take this advice if it doesn't

Success Stories » Player being played success story+questions » 2/11/2019 10:44 pm

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Nena wrote:

-What is the whispering????
-When i started the P.W technique,i didn t know what i was doing!it took me a month to see him,feel him and hear his voice during the meditation!
-I think you should accept the state of mind you are in (doubting-overthinking) and go on with the technique!i am sure your connection will come out of nowhere as it did with me!
-My player is very popular too!I don t think it is possible to keep all third parties away!i ve used the rubbing out technique with only one girl who was hanging with him!it worked!!!but i will go on because she is very persistent!
-But,the 2 last times i saw him,he seems to drive them away himself,and then he turns to me!!!    

Wow deadly awesome, LOL!

Whispering technique is basically speak to his ear in your mind. I tried this before but it didn't really worked out well on my first SP. For the PW, I just imagined he saw me and we talked and hugged. Is that makes sense?
 

Success Stories » Small Successes! » 2/11/2019 3:07 am

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IntentionallyThoughtful wrote:

I learned about Lanie back in October 2018 when the man I love ended our relationship. It was so hard. I manifested him to come back quickly and he said EVERYTHING I visualized this first go around (some of its pretty personal so I won’t share details, but it was stunning). It was amazing, we were on fire for weeks. It was like brand new love.

Then, I got lazy. Things were going well so I stopped visualizing and fell into old habits. Things fell apart again. He went through a messy divorce and while his love for his ex is gone, she’s done a great deal of damage. He often is conflicted in matters regarding love and trust and self esteem. His reasons for breaking up with me are always “you’ll get bored of me” “when you leave me...” “I am incapable of loving anyone” “this could lead to happiness or just backfire...last time (his marriage) backfired.” So he’s very afraid of relationships. Which is why I think I’m having a hard time manifesting commitment...or I’m having a hard time because of MY BELIEF that it will be hard. Maybe I need to get out of my own way!

He tells me he loves me, he’d be lost without me, I’m beautiful, I’m amazing, etc. all these things I visualized, but I can’t seem to get to that next step. At first I visualized me being his best friend and him being unable to be without me and it worked. Now I’m trying to go to the next stage. Lol.


A small, but recent manifestation was when we had an argument this week, I didn’t contact him, but I is ed Lanie’s Technique just to get an apology. And not just any apology, but a specific one. I kid you not, the language he used was slightly different, but he apologized several hours later. Just about the way I visualized. He always contacts me within a few hours after I use PW or BWD. This stuff works ladies!

Wow awesome!
I did try PW before but it seemed so hard to reach the first SP I wanted to manifest. This time around, I wan

Manifesting Your Ex Back » Im the one who break up with him, is it still possible? » 2/11/2019 12:51 am

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Same here. I was the one who broke off the relationship. And now want to manifest him back but nothing has happened. Reached out to him on his birthday but he only replied with a thanks.

Share Links Here » Affirmations » 8/24/2018 9:03 am

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Emma wrote:

madone87 wrote:

Hi Emma!

I listened to his Hopopono meditations and cried like a baby. 

 

I’m guessing if you cried that’s good as your releasing something that’s bothering you. I think I cried too the first couple of times but now I just listen if something’s bothering me, I also listened imagining i was saying this to my SP but also imagining he was saying it to me.

I really like his videos and they seem to work for me, I hope they help and work for you too

😘❤️

Yes Emma, I felt better after crying. Plus, that's my way of releasing everything. 

Can I imagine him saying all those words to me too?
 

Share Links Here » Affirmations » 8/23/2018 10:18 am

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Hi Emma!

I listened to his Hopopono meditations and cried like a baby. 

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Lanie Stevens' books » 8/22/2018 12:44 am

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ChaliceSnowFlower wrote:

madone87 wrote:

I still can't fully grasp on PW. Somebody care to help? 

What exactly do you need help with?

Well, how to exactly applying the PW technique correctly. I mean I simply visualize he's in front of me and said everything that I wanted to hear. Is that so? Most of the people say their sps are saying exactly what they'd imagined. I wonder how is that happening.

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Lanie Stevens' books » 8/15/2018 11:40 am

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I still can't fully grasp on PW. Somebody care to help? 

Manifesting Your Ex Back » Broke no contact after a year yesterday afternoon, no response :( » 8/12/2018 2:57 am

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LadyN wrote:

Hello, I am quite new to this, but I agree that expecting is not good. When I do my visualizations I don't expect because I know it has happened, how are you going to expect something that has happened? It's a contradiction :-) IT just has to manifest.
I know how complicated it is to have that feeling, but try your hardest, there is nothing to lose. If at this moment you can't feel as it had happened, maybe tonite you will be able to... you are the creator and you can change your feelings! And once you can do it and have felt how wonderful it feels to know that it has already happened, you just have to remember that feeling to be able to visualize like that, do you know what I mean? Sometimes it is very hard for me, but practise makes perfect and you can always change your reality!

So you mean stop expecting and just live your life?

Success Stories » New here and freaking out! :-):-) » 8/11/2018 12:10 pm

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That's super sweet. Which secret technique you are using? 

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