This is wonderful! Thanks for sharing

Hey ladies! I haven't been on in a WHILE but I am SOOOOOOO happy to see you all doing this challenge! Thanks for reviving it! I go back to it often, re-assess my beliefs about men and work on what I need to work on.
I recently worked on having better sex. Every time I'd do BWD on a man of interest, I'd have him tell me how desperate he is to please me. Sorry for TMI but I even had the guy tell me how he fantasizes about going down on me. Like it's basically the main thing he wants to do. I'd previously had men being selfish in bed and now I can't even imagine it! Sometimes I'm even like "OKAY THAT'S ENOUGH can we do something else??" 😂 Point is, I decided to believe that men love pleasing women, and that they want to please more than they want to be pleased. And now it's a reality for me! So, use this challenge for anything you want! 😆

I'm now using this challenge to broaden my focus onto things out there, big issues that mean a lot to me. I'm still consciously choosing my beliefs about the men I interact with, but like I said, use this challenge for anything! Thanks for participating and happy manifesting! This works! Combining it with Lanie's techniques is 🔥🔥 keep going xx

Hey gals and guys 👋🏽

So I recently moved to a new country for a course. I'm single, and don't really want anything serious at the moment, but I really wanted to have fun. After 3 weeks of nothing (well I was also busy with school, but still), I decided on Monday that THIS IS THE WEEK I'LL GET ACTION! I wanted it to be with someone with whom I have a great connection, a nice guy who thinks I'm awesome and cares that I have a good time. I had some guys in my course I'd been BWD'ing because I thought they were really attractive. One we'll call John, the other Hank. So I'd been put in Hank's team for a project, but he didn't show up on the day. I was really upset at first, 'cause I was excited to spend the whole day with him. HOWEVER, because I had to dress up and look nice for that day (I had to film something), all the guys and girls in my year were going crazy. 

John was one of them (and I'd completely forgotten that I'd done the techniques on him). He would not stop talking to me, and even when the pretty girl in our class was overtly flirting with him, I just minded my own business and did more BWD, knowing it was more powerful than anything. Well, he found me again and I flirted back, which made him WAY TOO EXCITED and then he was literally following me everywhere 😂 Anyway we started texting that evening and by Friday I'd decided we'd hook up. Friday night, sex with him was all I was thinking about, and in the visualization, I whispered in his ear "you only care about pleasing me". Well, Saturday night I went over (we just fooled around) and I didn't even do much honestly like I almost felt a little bad! So when I mentioned that he said, word for word "I just really want to please you". YUP! It was so trippy, I almost wanted to laugh out loud it was so cool!

He REALLY wants to see me again. Says he likes me, really wants to go out sometime, literally said "please call me?" Get home and find a message from a guy I'd been texting during the day (someone

OC you've been so amazing. Thank you for all of your advice, resources and support. You were always so gracious and so happy for the successes of others. Wishing you all the best. Much love ❤️

DJ wrote:

Thank you so much for your reply! I could really relate to your situation and each and every thing that you mentioned. As soon as we became close I got insecure and knew something might happen. And it did. It was like two different versions of him. He was not the same sweet and caring person that he used to be.
I have often written my thoughts whenever I get upset and angry and then go back to my PW once I feel a little better. So I am not sure it is working. Do you think this makes the process slower?
I visualise him apologising but the psychic thing used to bother me. But since you said they work on our own beliefs, I will just forget about what she said. Thanks!

Hello! Sure thing How are you feeling lately? I think vent for the first few times, but then try refocus your thoughts, rather. Use the vents to identify what your beliefs were, then remind yourself that those beliefs created that situation. Choose better-feeling thoughts. Going back to PW when you feel better is a GREAT idea. I tell myself that my bad/down moods don't cancel out the work I've done. I give myself some "human" time and then get back to being super powerful/kickass. Definitely don't beat yourself up, it'll only keep you there longer!

Yes, only you have power over your future ❤️