Shayne wrote:

Congrats on your manifestation, Katey! I do have a question though. When you did PW, were you visualizing your POI telling you the same things everyday until you received manifestation or did you switch it up?

Hey Shanye - pretty name BTW.  I didn't visualize him saying the exact same things, but I knew what I wanted to hear from him. It also helps that I know how he generally speaks, so a lot of what I visualized was phrased in the way he normally talks, and that made it very real for me.

unicornsnrainbows wrote:

I'm going to ask the question that seems to always pop up:  How long were you apart for, and did you have any contact at all during that time?  

Hey Pretty Unicorn Girl,

All in all, we were apart for a little over a year; about 14 months.

A few more details here: We had contact about six months into my working the techniques, but I got hyper and we argued, and it was a whole messy thing. So a couple of weeks after that I stopped the techniques because I was just TIRED. He was still on my mind, I could still 'feel' him, but I couldn't bring myself to give him any more of my energy. About two months later, I made peace with the possibility that I might never connect with him again; so I let the whole thing go. Again, I still thought of him and felt him, but the emotional charge and the desperation to make it happen was gone.  A month later, he contacted me. We spoke and I was kind, but I wasn't pressed to make anything happen - and THAT has made all the difference in the world. The only thing I'm doing at this point is  1) going with the flow, and 2) expressing gratitude for everything good that has happened; and it's all turning out the way I imagined.

unicornsnrainbows wrote:

So, Katey, where is your success story?!  Can't wait to read it!

Well,

One of the reasons for my delay is that I am still overwhelmed by everything, because it is SO GOOD!  I'm going to post this in the success stories section of the forum - but I will also post it below. So without further ado:

I met my beloved a long time ago. We've known each other since college, and while we were friends, we did not considered entering into a relationship. To be frank he focused on partying, while I focused on getting the hell out of school ASAP. He also had an outrageous reputation around campus, which, on him - I found charming. More than that - in comparison to the person he was painted to be in all of these notorious stories, he was much different when he was around me. As an individual, I really liked him both inside and out. But at the time, romance with him was the last thing I was thinking about.

Fast forward to March 2016, and he and I reconnect. Over the course of about six months, we discover how much we have in common; so much that it became clear to the both of us that we were soulmates. We fell in love: deep, beautiful, passionate, exciting, and SCARY, scary love.  

But then....out of no where, it ended.  We didn't argue, and there was no fight; there were just his personal pressures, all my worries about the 'realness' of it all, and a few life circumstances that abruptly pulled us apart.

I was so hurt and confused. I'm normally the kind of woman who approaches everything in life with firm intellect and logic - so none of this 'so-called love story' made sense to me, especially in context of the deep love and depth of emotion. But internally, I was conflicted because  EVERYTHING in me said that this was real, and this kind of love was worth the effort. I started looking for all kinds of information to explain our connection, or at least help me to make sense of things. Through all this research, I stumbled on to Lanie's

FABULOUS!  Your beautiful words have given me yet another thing to be grateful for.

Oasiscalm wrote:

THOU SHALL NOT FOCUS ON THE UNWANTED.

What does that mean, remember when Bashar said "circumstances don't matter" and when Neville said "turn your eye to what you see". Stop focusing on what you don't want to see.

It means all the energy you are using to focus on him blocking you/ ignoring you/ having a new girlfriend/ not telling you what you want to hear, needs to be redirected. You need to find a way to stop allowing the unwanted reality penetrating into your mind.

I'm realistic, I do know that the current reality has a way of constantly slapping you in the face, but it's actually you who allows it to keep slapping you. Find a way to stop it.

Get yourself a mantra for the moments when the unwanted presents itself to you. So when you are going about your day and thoughts about him and some other girl or that he is still blocking you pop up in your man, quickly engage your mantra to turn things around and stop the momentum.

So ask yourself are you ready to turn you focus back to your end desire and ignore your current reality?

This probably needs to be the 1st, and 2nd rule of PW/LOA Club...