Brilliant!! It's great to get confirmation even though we know these techniques work.  Keep up the good work and have fun!!

Thank you for your response Blue Deer - what you say makes a lot of sense.  I am definitely concentrating on me now and feel so much better for it  (happy)

Hello, it's been a while since I visited this forum but looking at all the conversations on here tells me there's a lot of knowledge and experience on here so I wanted to share with you where I am at in this manifestation journey of mine.  I found Lanie's techniques last year after me and my POI parted unexpectedly.  After doing PW for a few weeks he got back in touch with me, was a lot more open than he had been and was very keen for us to see each other again.... months later and we still haven't seen each other - he has spent all this time going hot and cold on me - telling me how much he wants to see me and then going quiet on me for weeks. A few months ago I decided I couldn't continue like this so have gone NC and have not heard from him since.  I know there is a lot of talk about POIs going hot and cold because they can't cope with the feelings/emotions when you do PW on them but I know I have made the right decision in going NC with him and moving on with my life - if he genuinely has feelings for me then he will contact me again and if he doesn't then it wasn't meant to be.  I'm interested in the forums thoughts/opinions on my situation - has anyone had the same or a similar experience and come out the other side (with or without their POI)? What are your thoughts on them going hot and cold on you?  Thanks for taking the time to read (and respond)

Hello lovely ladies,

Just wanted your thoughts on something please.  Me and my POI have been back in contact for a while now. Things aren't where I want them to be yet but hopefully will be soon. Anyway, I am really tempted to send him something for Valentine's but is that a good idea? Any thoughts would be good please!
Thank you!

Hello, after popping in and out of this forum for the past month or so I couldn't resist joining to get your advice/thoughts on my situation please.

Me and my man were together for few months before he decided he wasn't ready for a relationship. Things didn't end nastily between us (although I was hurt as it was unexpected) but he wouldn't respond to any of my messages so I stopped trying. Just over a month ago I found this fabulous forum and Lanie's PW and BWD techniques so thought I would give it a try. A few weeks of doing it and after 4 weeks of NC I contacted him to let him know something - I had no expectations if him responding because I wasn't asking him anything. A few hours after texting him he responded so I believe that was a result of me doing PW on him....
I feel very calm about the situation, not at all anxious or desperate to hear from him. I have a strong sense/feeling that we are meant to be with each other but I am not waiting around for something to happen - I go to work, go out with friends and enjoy living my life. Admittedly I have times where I feel down and think too much about it all but soon turn the negative thoughts into positives. So my question is am I going in the right direction to manifest him back into my life?

Also, when I do PW, I clear my mind and relax but don't think I am properly meditating - will this stop the technique from working if I am not in the correct meditative state?

Any advice or thoughts you can give would be great as I just want to know I am on the right path!

Thank you!