Anti-Social wrote:

Thats great that its working for you! Ive done the whisper technique 2-3 times a day for 3 days now and still haven't heard from my POI. He must be really stubborn!! Hahaha

Honestly, i think it comes down to how long you've been NC. I did the whispering technique on my POI and it took him a month to contact me. I wasn't consistent with it, meaning i didn't practice every day but definitely few times a week. And then one day, after 10 MONTHS of ZERO contact he contacted me and started messaging me like crazy calling me sweetie, wanting to know things about me etc. Lol😁 that was one month ago and to this day he still contacts me in the same manner. So just be patient.
And issykitten i'm so happy for you! You got this girl!

Omg i'm so happy for you!!☺️😍

Foxxy_1982 wrote:

Hello Sisters - just thought I'd share the latest. I spoke to my POI yesterday and had a moment of weakness. I projected jealousy and anger due to the fact he wasn't the man I fell in love with. He mentioned he looked for me online the previous night to chat. Also, he wanted to pass through and bring my a lemonade from my fave restaurant. He was travelling through from work, but I guess was on a tight schedule. He said he was glad he didn't stop by because I was pissy. I didn't reply. I came home yesterday pissed at myself for my actions. Today he contacts me asking me a work question. Which lead to informing me he'll be in my town for work very soon. I told him is this fate or what, I was suppose to travel to Africa March 30th but just this morning I cancelled and rebooked for mid April. He replied that he was smiling and that I was crazy in a good way. I made it clear I didn't change the plans because of him - good grief it's Africa. He said he was still smiling. Five mins later he asks if he can video chat me, he was in a meeting so don't speak but that he just wanted to see my face. I missed this msg but he asked again after lunch. I accepted. And my god the smiles across each other's faces is truly something to see. I felt my POI was back. We messaged each other as we were on webcam.  He told me how much he loved my dimples, that my smile lights up the whole room. He tried to keep a straight face in his meeting - my heart just filled up seeing him struggling lol. It was such a special moment. He video requested one or twice more. He asked me a couple hours later if I was going to make him lunch when he's in town. Lol! I wouldn't allow him at my place in the past the rule was until he was mine. I didn't say no, I said perhaps. I asked him "how many ppl make you that happy" he said "only one", "you". We eventually said goodbye at the end of the work day. I told him he made my day, he said he felt the same way. He told me he'd see me soon. Today

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