I prefer WOMEN =)

Hi guys! Its been a minute since I last posted here (last time was about my ex)

Anyway, I met this friend back in late May and she has always had a doom and gloom worldview (she's admitted having an existential crisis several times).
Recently, her soon to be ex wife told her that she was divorcing her and told my friend she had until October to find a new place because the ex wife is going to lease the apartment.
My friend has no job at this time and I've been doing my best to help her without getting frustrated or drained.

Additionally, it seems the gloominess follows her as she struggles to date around or mingle with others.

I've started using the whispering technique on her and so far, one of the four phrases she has said in regards of a GoFundMe page she made for her current situation.

What is the best course of action to take using LOA to influence change in her disposition?

I don't think I'm in a needy state, am I?
Recently, during 12-hour work shifts I've thought of my last partner off and on. All the good times, mostly.

And moments ago, I ran into a pic of hers on the Instagram feed, which made me go and look at her others (yeah I know its said its best to not stalk--I haven't up to this point)
And I shed a few tears, but not as many as I had in the beginning of the break-up.
I just double tapped/liked the last pic she posted and kept it moving.

And an interesting note--she'd contacted me last month during a season finale of a show I was watching. But it was like three letters? I'd thought she butt-typed or was really high...idk, but our convo was quite brief and she barely talked. And I wonder if this was all because earlier that morning I used one of Agnes Vivarelli's meditations and visualized us both smoking and getting high, lol

Anyway, I've been pretty happy lately, meeting new people and I'm feeling ok at the moment. Are these good signs that something great could happen soon?

Noeshe wrote:

I think you can just tell her she's pretty, has beautiful eyes or nice hair or whatever. If I were feeling ugly I would probably not believe anyone telling me I am pretty 😉 but I would appreciate it!

With saying she is pretty, you are not admitting you want to move in and spend the rest of your life cuddling up with her, you are only giving her some much needed love and support.

She did thank me, but still sounded like she was unsure. Next time if I get the chance, I will tell her that, frankly. To this day I wonder if she ever wondered why I stared at her so much...

We didnt talk much after that.
I sent her a chain message thingy that said she was one of my special people. No reply but thats okay. Her birthday is tomorrow, and while she said anyone could come in a FB post, should I come or should I let her invite me?

My main intention though was to just focus on finding jobs tomorrow though .

UPDATE:
So these are the things that happened in March:
I saw her in person on the 12th of March and we both marched together. She stuck by me the whole time and we talked! A very good day!
I got a message from her at the end of March and she asked me if I had borrowed something of hers. The convo was short.
This was also in March.
Nothing of significance happened in April, except for a few signs here and there.
She posted a selfie I happened across on the Gram feed and I double tapped.
This was mid April.

But just yesterday, I received the notification that she had commented on my 3-4 day old selfie post! She'd said "Wow!"
I kinda anticipated it happening the night I posted it up, but thought no more of it as I was focused on Monday's date night.
It's interesting...while I am grateful it happened, my main focus is on the new person I'm seeing who somewhat reminds me of my old POI.
But as I have chosen the polyamorous route, my arms are always open to her coming back. I'm excited as I'm sure this month will have nice surprises whereever the pendulum swings! ^-^