Lanie, forgive me for jumping the gun if you were going to announce them; but I went to your site today to get the PW with 3 min. of silence; and saw all the new ones! Ended up getting 2 more. I'm so excited to try the Reverse Remote Seduction AND the Connecting to POI in Sleep! Thank you for all you do, and for continuing to add value to your site. 
Y'all go check them out! (Yes, I'm from the south....lol).

I just wanted to post because there seems to be a lot of angst going on with many people who are not able to let go yet.They are feeling obsessed with the situation and their POI. I understand this VERY well. I lost my relationship in Feb of '16; and found Lanie's books in May '16. I practiced the techniques for MONTHS.I did see some result; but in my case, I was dealing with an abusive narcissist and I was very much in a trauma bond. I managed to manifest him calling me more, and he stopped being so angry at me over text messages. He's now progressed to calling me and complimenting me on things he said he never appreciated about me before; and also now ends our calls the way we used to when we were together. He has said he will always love me. Now that I have some distance; it's best we aren't together right now because he has some issues that I don't  know can be addressed from my end -but that's a whole other LOA discussion.I know that if I do enough changing of belief on * my* end; I might be able to manifest a better version of him, but I'm not sure I want to yet, and that's a whole other 'project'; if you know what I mean. I'm enjoying getting to know myself again right now, I'll decide if I want to tackle that later. He's a trainwreck right now, anyway...lol. Also, he's 5 states away.

About April or May of this year; a good guy friend and I started getting closer. So I started using PW and BWD on him, and things got really intense on the psychic level...I could *feel* him getting really interested in me, and he was over here at my house ALL the time. He finally made a move. I had to stop him before it got past kissing because he had said earlier that if we slept together it would ruin the friendship; and when he kissed me he was very drunk, lol. I wanted him to make the decision to kiss me when he was in his right mind. This caused a bit of awkwardness - as you can imagine - but he is still coming by at least twice a week and our friendship remains steady

Now that Lanie has introduced EFT to her repertoire of techniques; I felt I should share this here.
I have known about EFT for several years; but I had let it fall by the wayside in my life until Lanie brought it back to my attention..thank you Lanie!! The Universe is working through you well I like this style to use when I'm driving or in a hurry - when something I want to tap on comes up and I don't want to forget about working on it. 
ANYway; this guy Robert Smith has come up with a shortened version of EFT; called Faster EFT. He has a huge following and many videos on YouTube. He even has an app; so if this works for you do download it to your phone for quick reference. This may not work well for everyone; but I thought I'd share in case it appeals to you.
I'll post several videos to give you an intro to his style of EFT. If you like it; there's a ton more on YouTube. 

FIrst video shows how to tap:





This video explains WHY he developed this method/why he taps this way:






This video tells you how to phrase statements when you tap:







One more about how to tap this way..it may be a little clearer. 













 

I'm going to be completely honest here.

It's been a year since my guy and I split up. He wasn't the best person; as I've outlined in other posts. I have spent this year recovering; taking care of myself and our son; being by myself (by that I mean not really dating; a few but nothing serious or long); learning to make myself a priority; getting in touch with who I really am; etc. Most of the year has been spent in no or low contact; with a few good conversations in between - but inevitably he did something that made me cut contact again. 

Recently on our anniversary (the 7th) he contacted me again and we had a good conversation. He said "I love you with all my heart"; when he has not said the L word to me since we split up. 

I sat down this week with myself an re-assessed how I feel about him. It's complicated; but I do still love him very much. I have a strong belief in soul groups; life between lives and reincarnation; so I believe he is a close member of my soul family who agreed to come here so we could both learn love lessons; if you know what I mean. So, despite the bad things that have happened between us; I know that I love him for his true soul; and that's what I fell in love with. I know it's best he's away from us (our son and I) right now; because he chose some extremely challenging lessons to learn in this lifetime (alcoholism; BPD; narcissism). I accept that I needed to learn to let go of being treated badly by him and hoping he would change just because I was being hurt. I stood up for myself and I know I'm a strong and capable woman - he and his mother even said so.

As I assessed my feelings after a year; I realized that - as Abraham says; reach for the feeling that gives you relief - the thing I was fighting so hard was self-judgement, as well as fear of others judging me for how I feel. The thought that gives me the most relief right now is that I still love him very much; and I want his soul energy in my life. We were best friends, and when

Okay, I've been on and off with the PW and Burn because I still am pretty angry at my guy (been doing it since last May; with varied success because of my attitude and our long, bad history). I'm angry because he's not been a good father to our son since he moved away. He moved another woman in with him in November; was paying her way; but did not send our son a birthday or Christmas present; or even a card ( he pled poverty..he DOES pay my car payment since he's on the loan for it; so I can't say he does absolutely *nothing* for us). It's been very contentious between us. I do PW mostly now; because I am hoping to change that dynamic. I understand that this man may not be someone I want to continue concentrating on;but without getting into the WHOLE story; I have sat down with myself and decided that I still want to work on him some. It's just now been a year since we split up (very VERY badly!) and I assessed how I feel. I love his soul; who he is underneath all his BS;but I am VERY AWARE he has a LOT of BS (again;I'm aware that I'm affirming this. Just using this to explain how it's been so far). These days; when I do the PW I imagine that I am talking to his soul; his true self; instead of the person he pretends to be on the outside ( he is an alcoholic and has BPD ..and I also realize - before you say anything about that - that those things are also things I am reaffirming here; and I would like to say I'm just describing what I've already manifested. I'm aware of that; and of the fact I should move beyond them). At the least; I am hoping to manifest a better parenting relationship with him; even if my love is in vain and I'm being foolish still caring about him.

**I would like to take this time to say that I do NOT have large self-esteem problems. I am perfectly happy with who I am. I know I am attractive; worthy of good love and respect; and I am content alone right now. I don't chase after anyone; I take care of myself and my autistic son by myself every da