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General Discussion "For Women Only" » Can someone help me understand what I’m doing wrong. » 7/28/2018 2:26 am

Joshbemine
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Thanks for your reply so quick.  I know I wrote it like that, he will be mine but I already believe he is mine, well if you new how I live my life you would think I was mad. He is with me all the time like an imaginary friend. The only time he is not with me is when I’m at work. It’s when I see him post these things about his wedding that I get hit with a reality check, and think what am I doing wrong. It doesn’t last long and I get back to my day.
You have made me realise something though. I’ve been following Lanie’s mp3’s (PW, BWD, and all of the connecting with your mate) which some of them don’t live in the end and she does use the phrase ‘you will’. So maybe I should stop following what Lanie says and do what you say. Make my own version up and do them more living in the end.

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Can someone help me understand what I’m doing wrong. » 7/27/2018 11:00 pm

Joshbemine
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I have been doing PW for about 18 months now and my POI messages me more now then he use to. I did end up joining his network marketing team only because I liked the product. He has ask me 3 time before with other teams he is in but to me they didn’t fit and I wasn’t going to join just so I could get close to him. I don’t PW as much as I use to but Lanie say you don’t have to, though I do aim for once a day. My visualisation is not real good and has never really improved but I keep at it, I also sometimes don’t have much feeling in my heart area going out to him, then other times I’m very emotional, I never feel real relaxed after I call him to me, I feel like I’m being held down if that make sense. I have always believed that he will be mine and I know he adores me by what he has posted about me on social media. In my visualisation I have him say the usual stuff, like I love you etc. and lately for the last month I have added him telling me that he has called off his wedding, that he wants to be with me.(he is supposed to be getting married in October) And I think things are going along nicely, that I’m getting close and then he then post pictures of them wedding planning together and it’s disheartening and makes me think what am I doing wrong. I know Lanie says you can’t do it wrong but maybe I do. Please help. What more can I do? What am I doing wrong?

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Not sure anymore » 7/05/2018 6:52 am

Joshbemine
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I don’t know what I should be thinking. Whether this is good or bad. I have been using PW for about 18 months now on my POI and we do message each other occasionally, it’s genuinely him trying to get me to join his network marketing Business or go and attend one of his workshops. I did attend one of his workshops about 3 months ago, no one else attended which I had wondered if it was planned that way. That was the last time I saw him face to face. He has Admitted that he has been depressed for some time which I wondered if it was the PW. He message me tonight saying he has got on top of his depression through taking a cbd oil and again trying to get me to join his business. I haven’t told him that I have feelings for him, his not a ex. I have told him last year that he means a lot to me and that I’m there for him. The thing is he is engaged to be married in October and if you go by his Facebook he is always talking about trying to improve his relationship. So I don’t know if he keeps in touch with me because he does have feelings fo.me and gets what I send him or whether he is a down right businessman trying to recruit new clients. I don’t do PW as much as I use to simply because I’m moving on, and tired of playing second fiddle. But this last message kind of annoyed me, it just seems like sell, sell, sell more then love, love, love with him. Not sure if he really is interested in me. Not sure if I should stop PW all together all keep doing it when I feel like it.

Questions & Answers » No contact » 6/23/2018 12:12 am

Joshbemine
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Keep in contact with him if you’re already doing that, don’t change things or act differently to him. Lanie only says go no contact if it a break up and he has stopped talking to you. It’s so you can get your emotions in check.

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Coincidence Or Connected thinking of me » 6/23/2018 12:02 am

Joshbemine
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I know we get connected to our POI when we do PW but to day and this has happened before I was shopping and all of a sudden I got a thought or vision, it was like a knowing of my POI posting a picture on Facebook of him and his girlfriend. When I got home I check my Facebook and he had posted a photo of them together at that time I got that thought. Now my POI post things all the time on Facebook and I don’t get thoughts every time he posts stuff.

Do you think I got this thought because he was thinking of me when he posted it or just a coincidence that this happened?

This is not the first time that this has happened and I had thought it might have been a coincidence when it first happened but now I’m not so sure.
What do you all think? Coincidence or connected and him thinking of me at that time? I would love to know what you all think 💞 Has anyone else have this happen to them ?

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Over whelming feeling of passion » 1/12/2018 9:25 pm

Joshbemine
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Thanks Lanie. I do use your cutting the cord meditation but I don’t use it all the time. I don’t get emotional while doing PW, i  generally don’t feel anything but when I do get emotional it hits me after I have finished. I had wondered if it was his emotions I pick up on.

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Over whelming feeling of passion » 1/09/2018 6:56 am

Joshbemine
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Just wondering how long after we do PW/ BWD do they feel our present and thoughts?

This doesn’t happen all the time but after I have finished and have come out of the relaxed state I would still be thinking of him but I get an over whelming feeling of passion.
The thing is I get very emotional and cry. Not cry with sadness but cry because it is so beautiful the feeling of love and joy, it’s hard to explain.  It feels like he is still there with me even though I watch him walk away at the end of the session.
Anyway I was wondering if he would still feel this burst of emotion that I get?

Manifesting Your Ex Back » I learned why NC hard way » 8/31/2017 5:23 am

Joshbemine
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I do know what you mean Missy and I have wondered when he thinks of me, does he think he is thinking of me because he feels he needs to help me, (He is a life coach, that's his job to help people) not because he has feelings for me and so he has put me in that box. His way of resisting feelings for me.

I don't message my guy, if he messages me I message him back but I'am friends with him on Facebook and I do occasionally like his posts not as much as I use to when we first became friends. He has recently added me to a Facebook group of his, he has about 3 of these and he has joined me to all of them.  I do wonder if he doesn't have that miss me feeling because he knows I'm always there. I haven't seen him in person for 11 months. About 3 months ago he messaged me and asked if I would support him in something he was doing, which I replied yes, I would always support him and I told him, he means a lot to me. I regretted sending it and I didn't hear from him for 2 months he went and got engaged just after that as well, which was not planned. I wonder if he done that because I told him what he means to me and he didn't know how to handle the feelings for me. I don't do the technique everyday anymore, he will always have a place in my heart but life goes on, and I can live without him.

Questions & Answers » Will these techniques work in my situation? » 8/19/2017 4:34 am

Joshbemine
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Yes Forgetmenot it is hard to detach even more so when you're friends with them on FB. Today was the first time I actually felt at peace and a knowing that he was going to come into my life permanently, I was sitting having coffee with friends and I felt so happy, my business is even taking off, it was like yes he's mine!! He's here!! It's always these days of detachment that he contacts me though the messages always ends up upsetting me in some way or he posts something on Facebook, and yep there was the post, today's was officially engagement party tonight. So the happy feelings didn't last long not that I feel sad because this has been long drawn out engagement announcement, there is one every week since he got engaged but it left me feeling confused because I don't know how I am suppose to feel when I have already felt the knowing, if you know what I mean.
Am I just gullible.
He shows no signs of having any love feelings for me at all, so I don't even know if these techniques work. I know they work in a way that they help you cope and love yourself but I don't know about him getting my love and feeling it, because he seems to be getting further and further away from me. I don't think he would even class me as a friend now maybe just an acquaintance…. Ouch!! I am thankful that if I do message him he always replies back and has told me on a few occasion that he is always there for me.  I have thought about giving up but my heart and intuition say don't give up on him, be patient. It was my intuition that brought me to him.
I don't do the techniques every day anymore only when I feel like it, maybe over time it will stop totally. This is the second guy I have used these techniques on the first guy I didn't get anywhere and lost interest but I wasn't in a good place at the time and  I don't want him anyway, didn't tick any of the boxes when I did my list of what I want in a guy and I realise that when this guy came into my life. Not sure where to go from here,

General Discussion "For Women Only" » What Is The Fastest And Surest Way To Manifest Your Ex Back Right Now? » 8/17/2017 7:25 am

Joshbemine
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The only thing I try real hard at is BWD only because I can't feel touch or see/feel his reaction. I don't even know if it works by not feeling this but I still do it on occasions because I enjoy it. I do put a lot of effort in trying to feel.

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