daisychain wrote:

Thanks for replying Indigo.

I'm doing loads more and have been for months from BW, Love spell.  My PW comment was only meant in that I wanted to see if there was a reaction while I was there.

He didn't actually show me the pictures as such, he was flicking through his phone showing me his family etc and they were there.

I have all Lanie's books and have read them all a few times, guess I need to re-read!
  

  
  
Well it hurts just the same whether he intended for you to see the pix or not.  I've got a 
crazy story but it really happened to me.  Years ago, back in the 80s, it's been thirty
years ago I was in a relationship with a guy that I knew was sort of a scoundrel but I
just thought he was the cat's meow and so I didn't care, all I cared about was that he
would see me when I wanted and it was all good.  I was working full-time at a really
nice job but I also had a part-time job in the evenings because I had the time and
energy and I liked to have extra money to do whatever.  So I had a part-time job at
a photo development lab we got all the films from drugstores, K-marts, everywhere
in the region.  The films would come in the evenings, we would develop them and ship
them back out in the mornings.  I only worked for 4-5 hours in the evenings because I
had my full-time job to attend and I had to be alert for that.  So anyway, one day at the
photo lab I came across an envelope (one of my duties was sorting the films by type
35mm, 110, discs, disposable cameras, like that) and it had his other girl's name on
it and so after the pix were developed I went and spied the pix under the guise of
doing inspections and OMG the two of them had a BABY together!!!  I was so upset
I can't tell you how shocked and upset I was.  I was so hurt it was awful because I
had no idea that all of that was going on.  They weren't married and since they both
worked for federal government it was frowned upon to have a baby out of we

daisychain wrote:

Met up with my love but now confused!!!

I'm off work on holiday and at the beginning of the week had been thinking of going for a short break to his Country as I love it but couldn't make my mind up.  The flight left the next day and I was talking to him that night and asked about a place I was thinking of going.  Long story short he asked if I wanted him to come see me so I said yeah.  He recommend a town which was closer to him so I ended up going there.  He works a lot sometimes until early hours plus has Uni but came to see me the night after I arrived and stayed over until the next afternoon then had to leave to go back to work.  He told me when I said where I was staying he'd phoned them to find out where it was.  When he arrived I got big hug and kisses and It was like we'd never been apart, we got on so well, chatted and had laughs.  He was showing me photos of his family, nephews, brother, sister, mum and dad and I saw pictures of her (the girl I found out he was with at the same time as me).  I said are you and her still.....he didn't reply just made a grunting kind of noise and had a meh type expression. 

He said he'd try come back that night after work, he finished early hours of the morning so would have to rely on someone giving him a lift.  Next day he messaged saying sorry he couldn't get his friend to bring him.  So that was it I didn't see him again, I was only there for 3 and a bit days.

I done PW on him while I was there but didn't see any response, I didn't see him again lol.

I'm so confused again as he's gone back to being quiet on me   I still feel that there's more for me and him and I truly believe he feels something for me.  This guy is younger and has a lot going on in his life with Uni and work etc.

Help....what do I do now?
  

  
  
I'm sorry this happened to you but if you want a real relationship with this
man then you need to do more

Splendid wrote:

I purchased PW book about 3 weeks ago. I did it a few times, three or four times the first week. We had some drama happen last week so I completely forgot about doing any sort of techniques, just tried to focus on not letting stuff get me down. And last week due to a situation I did not for see at all, I realized after everything that he texted me almost exactly what I visualized him saying in my PW meditations! I was shocked.

I visualized him saying things like "I want you to be my girl" "I want only you"
and exactly he texted me that he wanted me to be his gf and to be his girl and that he only wants me. 
This definitely gives me much faith, I know its possible. The key is definitely letting go and not obsessing. And it happened for a reason I could have never imagined or predicted.
  

  
 
That's great!!!  Continue doing the meditations on a regular basis and 
read Lanie's other books to help you deal with whatever else is going
on in your relationship.
  
  

 

Nirvana3 wrote:

Dear All,

I honestly apologise for posting a negative topic but I am in need of an honest opinion from all you ladies and Lanie.

My friend was in an abusive relationship which ended two years ago and this guy tried extremely hard to make amends with her claiming that he is now a changed man and they got back together 9 months ago. Things were fine initially till he started his arrogant and rude behaviour again.

Two days ago while they were having a conversation, he asked her to "prove her love for him" by sending him a stripping video of hers.She thankfully declined, they had a fight and he did not speak to her for the rest of the day. Yesterday morning, this guy texted her and sent her naked photos of him with a friends-with-benefits woman of his and how they enjoyed some hardcore sex and how my friend is a good for nothing bitch, is a piece of shit and he would piss on her next time he sees her.

My friend no longer has anything to do with him, but I was extremely enraged at this MF when she showed me the WhatsApp conversation. I know Karma would get him eventually but I feel someone has to teach him a lesson NOW.

I know PW should be done only from a place of love and I have been using it since 7 months now on my would be boyfriend, but this man deserves to be kicked in the nuts for traumatising my friend so much. I really want him to be miserable.

Would appreciate your views.

Regards,
Nirvana

  
  
I would say to move on from this.  Your friend is an adult, she knew that he wasn't good for her
when she got back together with him.  He is the worst sort of human and nothing good is ever
going to come to him and you don't need to do anything else to help that along.  Be a friend and
help your girlfriend move on, neither one of you should dwell on this negative situation any further.  
Learn from this while trying to forget it ever happened.  Use your positive radiant energy to attract
more positive beautiful gentlemen into yo

Happychicka wrote:

Hey guys! 
While using PW and RS can we visualize the target being in the same place as our current reality?
It's what I've been doing since almost 2 months and just wanted to make sure I'm doing it right, I've been really worried about it lately. I've read that the most important thing in visualizations are the feeling of it being in the now. So it just feels more realistic and easier for me to visualize my guy being in the same place as I am in my current reality. Is this alright?
  
 

  
  
Welcome!!!

You are visualizing perfectly.  But it doesn't matter as Lanie says you can't do it wrong.
You could see yourselves at the beach, restaurant, in bed, taking a shower or whatever.
Whatever you visualize, it's all good!!!