1 | Questions & Answers » Question about moving on » 12/29/2017 12:07 pm |
- Oasiscalm
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Do what feels good to you.
You don't tell the universe what you want with actions you do it with feelings. A ring is just a ring - what it means is based on what significance you attach to it. So if seeing the ring brings you sorrow then why keep it? If selling the engagement ring brings you closure and helps you move on - then do it?
You are trying to manifest a new relationship not a re-run of the past. So it is great to see that you are focusing on moving on and putting the past to rest. Whether you decide to sell the ring or keep it - know whatever you do is not telling the universe about your desire. Your desire comes from your heart. You want what you want regardless of action.
So the key is to get to the place you where you have accepted what's past and made peace with it (with or without the ring). And bring yourself to a place where you are internally and mentally ready to allow a new relationship with you POI.
| Success Stories » My success story Part II » 11/27/2017 1:29 am |
- Oasiscalm
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JCB
I haven't been on here for the longest while and it was a pleasure to so your story. Thank you for sharing you journey so honestly and openly.
I too have made the error of focusing on manifesting the reconciliation, to then be faced with all the old resistance resurfacing about the relationship and hindering the flow.
But the goof thing is really you can never go wrong. As long as you stay in faith every step positive or negative will simply show you what you need to do or change.
It's a journey and there is a reason Neville says focus on the desired end result - that's where your dreams and wishes are - not in the text messages or even the reconciliation.
Keep up the faith. And stay positive and keep forward focused. You can only do for you - your love will catch up and if he doesn't well that's because you expanded beyond him and your match to that newexpansion will come (but I sure the end will be you and Juan living in bliss forever 😉).
| Manifesting Your Ex Back » It's working! » 7/30/2017 8:12 am |
- Oasiscalm
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hellokitty wrote:
you chased after him before so,what's stopping you from reaching out to him again?
I just came on her after a long time and saw this.
Is that meant to be a joke "you chased after him before..."
| Manifesting Your Ex Back » CONFUSION ON LANIE'S BWD TECHNIQUE? » 7/01/2017 9:40 am |
- Oasiscalm
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Hi Oasiscalm,
But isn't Magic Touch and BWD the same thing (Remote Seduction)?
If they were the same thing they wouldn't be two books written by two different authors.
Are they based on the same principles, yes they are.
But in much the same way Wieght Watchers and Jenny Craig are weight loss systems they are techniques with their own nuances.
Stick to one and follow the instructions. Don't start mixing things up.
| Manifesting Your Ex Back » CONFUSION ON LANIE'S BWD TECHNIQUE? » 7/01/2017 9:01 am |
- Oasiscalm
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Hi everyone,
In the BWD technique, Lanie said that you should FEEL THE EMOTIONS as if you were physically there with him. However, I have read other books on Remote Seduction (specifically Mind Power Seduction by Armagi Hillier) and they suggested that you should only focus on the FEELING OF TOUCH and how your target reacts since focusing on the emotions would arouse you intensely and cause your heartbeat to go faster, which would get your mind out of the alpha state (best state for meditating). This is the exact quote from the book mentioned above:
"the most important thing: the FEELING OF TOUCH AS IF YOU WERE ACTUALLY TOUCHING THEM. This is the most important thing even as your other skills become slowly developed. This is where 99.9% of your concentration should go.
try to do more of the giving than visualizing them doing the giving. You want to keep the job of arousing them and not letting your visualization become a fantasy experience for your own pleasure. You might get aroused by this but try to stay in control and make sure you do most of the giving.Remember that you are doing the stuff to them and they are getting horny by it in your mind. You're not trying to get off on this. If you do, your heart will start to beat faster and you'll start to come out of your Alpha state.Of course, you need to feel some of it as you visualize because you want it to be. If you get turned on while doing these visualizations, then keep control and keep your eyes closed and channel this sexual energy into your visualizing."
So my question here is that should I focus on the feeling of touch or my emotions?
The simple answer is when u are following BWD technique follow the instructions for that. When you are doing Magic Touch follow the instructions for that.
It's illogical to say one technique says do x and one technique say
| General Discussion "For Women Only" » Dealing with cancelling date for genuine reason/wanting to rearrange? » 6/13/2017 2:15 am |
- Oasiscalm
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Why did you ring his up in the first place? Isn't the point of pw to make him come to you? Am I missing something?
If you don't have the confidence to reach out to your POI then you should not do it.
PW or any other form of RS is about soften the person and inginating feelings in the other person.
It is a tool to stack the odds in your favour. How you play the game after that is purely up to you.
I read a thread earlier where people were chastising people for reaching out to their POI, stating it wasn't a success story because they reached out first. It was a very uncomfortable read. It was so wrong and misguided.
There are no rules. Do PW and do whatever you are inspired to do.
| Questions & Answers » Need Advice on Revenge And/Or Manifesting Someone Out Of My Life.. » 6/13/2017 1:55 am |
- Oasiscalm
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Ladies, I really need your help. This is not love related, but I really don't know where else to turn..you all give such great advice and are non judgmental so I thought I would ask in case anyone might have any good advice for my situation.. I am temporarily stuck living at my mom's house right now so I can save money for a place with my son..my mom's husband really creeps me out. He has told me that he is in love with me, said he was jealous of my boyfriends and wishes it were him, has tried to kiss me, put his hands on me and has even gotten violent with me... I told my mom about it but she doesn't believe me..He lies all the time and she believes it. She said if he hit me I deserved it because i'm always disrespectful to him. I'm sorry, I just can't have respect for someone like that. He is not a man, he is a bitch. He is obsessed with me and even tries really hard to get my son to like him even though I just want him to stay away from us, he just keeps persisting. I don't know how long I am going to be stuck in this hell and I do not want my son to look up to him as a role model. I don't know what to do. It is really making me depressed and lowering my vibe to have to think about living with and my son being around such a piece of shit. I am so depressed that I probably would have killed myself by now if it wasn't for my son..I just want him to leave me and my son alone. I also want this bastard to suffer for all the abuse he has put me through. What would you ladies do in my situation? Any suggestions? Thank you so much.
I would stop wasting your mental energy contemplating revenge and start thinking about how you can get you and your son out of the situation sooner.
In the meantime make sure you and your son are never with him alone. Don't have any conversations or interactions with him unless someone else is present.
Then work on manifesting a situation where you and your son can move out into a safer less toxic environment.
| General Discussion "For Women Only" » Change starts from within » 5/14/2017 6:30 am |
- Oasiscalm
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Hey Ladies,
I have occasionally popped back in to the board to read the posts, glad to see u are all continuing to support each other.
I wanted to share with you two resources that will be priceless in your journeys to getting back your POI and more importantly attracting and sustaining a fulfilling relationship.
I advised every woman on this board read at least one of these two books. One of them I recommended to a friend a while back - in two weeks she is getting married. So don't stop believing LOA can give u all that your dream of but it starts all from within you.
The books
1.Marie Forleo- Make Every Man Want You: or Make Yours Want You More
2. Areille Ford - The Soulmate Secret
| General Discussion "For Women Only" » Goodbye and Good Luck » 3/20/2017 2:46 am |
- Oasiscalm
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Ladies I'm touched by all of your lovely words. You touched my heart and I'm so happy to see I have helped you all.
I will hopefully pop in every so often.
Take care, big love and hugs to you all xoxoox
| General Discussion "For Women Only" » Goodbye and Good Luck » 3/19/2017 7:30 am |
- Oasiscalm
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Ladies this will be my last thread/post on the forum.
It has been a pleasure supporting and contributing to this forum. I came on here many many moons ago and my first thread was titled something like "I did BWD and he went cold..Why?" And this forum was a place of support and entertainment to push me forward to continue to rebuild myself.
I used LOA to get my love back. I manifested him back, I manifested another break up, I manifested his return. So when I read all of your pleas for help the only thing you need to know is that it can be done, THERE IS NO DOUBT YOU 1000% CAN ATTRACT YOUR POI BACK. But and the absolutely biggest BUT is that it absolutely comes from you and only you. These are my last nuggets of advice for you all:
PLACE YOURSELF IN A POSITION OF CONFIDENCE & POWER
Everyday when you wake up make it your mission to fill yourself up with confidence and belief in yourself and your power.
Once you decided to start doing these techniques, the core principle that you needed to embrace was that "you are going to use your mind power to influence/ seduce/motivate your poi." You can only do that if approach your practice them from a position of power and confidence. You need to make yourself the best salesperson you can be.
DON'T CONCERN YOURSELF WITH WHAT HE IS OR ISN'T DOING
All you have to do, is know and believe he is feeling your sessions and thoughts of you are racing through his mind. I remember my love telling me he had been thinking about me so much he thought he was going mad- my thought was "well you aren't acting like it".
Don't worry whether they are blowing up your phone or whether they are ignoring you. They are getting the message and each person will deal and process their feelings in different ways. So let nature take its course and just know it will all come to fruition. Even if when he first starts to respond he isn't saying what you were expecting just hold strong to the vision you have and it will slowly unfold before your
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