Shayne wrote:

DJ wrote:

I am currently attracted to someone who has a gf since 6 years. I think I am attracted because he resembles a lot to my ex. My ex and I havent spoken in 8 months and I have currently stopped all techniques coz I cant forgive him fully.
But what do I do about this guy? I try to avoid him as much as I can but we study together and naturally spend a lot of time. Besides, I dont think he sees me anything more as a friend. I know it is wrong to wish that he breaks up & I dont want to be a reason for the breakup but this situation is just pulling me down for some reason. What do I do?

Maybe you can just visualize a friendship with him for now? Perhaps the friendship between you two can become so great that he begins to want more than just friendship with you. It'll be his idea.

I could do that but I am in a moral dilemma whether it is even right to do that or not? And the way he talks about his gf shows how much he likes her. Besides, even if we become more than friends, doesnt it show that he can be disloyal and karma would come after me some day? I'm so confused :/

Have you tried doing it on someone you are not attached to? If it works then you need to work more on letting go

LearningToDetach wrote:

DJ wrote:

I had not checked his fb since a long time but tonight I decided to check and saw that I have been unfriended. I have read that it is supposed to be a good sign but I am really really depressed about it. It has been no contacts since 8 months, I had texted him once in between but no reply. What do I do? I really need some contact. 

I have done the techniques, did meditations, listened to subliminals etc but it seems he is going further and further away. What do I do, I feel helpless and really down. Please suggest me something other than to take it as a good sign

You have to not feel down. Then things will get better. When I'm down I read a book so i'm in another world and I don't have to care about what's going on in this world. Or watch a funny tv series/movie.

My friends are usually busy so I'm alone most of the time. So that's what I do.

Cheer up. ...

 
Thank you for your reply. I am feeling much better. I cried it out last night and read every post on being unfriended and blocked in this forum. Since I couldnt sleep, I also did a lot of RS which calmed me down. I know he is coming back because I manifest whatever I desire.

Missy wrote:

Say to him he is sending you a text with ______ content and hear him confirm it back to you. Feel the feelings you would feel if you really got that text. 

Thank you