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General Discussion "For Women Only" » Can you do the technique without forming an emotional attachment? » 5/21/2019 5:51 pm

BelleFleur
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So I have let go of wanting my SP and I haven't done any RS techniques on him for months...but a part of me wants to do the technique just to prove that the technique works.  I have no interest in hurting him or revenge--I'm not doing it from a negative place--and if he came around I would take him back BUT I am also afraid that if I start doing the techniques on him, my heart will get entangled again.  Is it possible to do the techniques without forming an emotional attachment?

Questions & Answers » BWD and PW calling them » 10/08/2018 6:35 pm

BelleFleur
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Lanie or anyone else, I'm trying to understand calling the person as loud as I can in my mind.  I just don't feel like I'm doing it right.  It feels like I'm screaming in my head which kind of seems the opposite of the relaxed state I'm trying to achieve.  Can anyone make it a bit clearer?  I have the PW book, and the PW and BWD meditations.  Thank you

Manifesting Your Ex Back » How to take my power back after he has rejected me? » 10/03/2018 7:46 pm

BelleFleur
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I would recommend that you stop doing any technique about him and do 100% self-love until you feel strong and less anxious again.  I think the techniques aren't as effective if a person is anxious, heartbroken, etc.  You need to turn that energy from him to YOU.  YOU make yourself secure.  Not him.  There's too much attachment here and it's very difficult (if not impossible) to manifest from that state.

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Been doing PW for 6 weeks now, haven´t seen any signs of it working » 9/28/2018 3:21 pm

BelleFleur
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I would say that if the guy you want back is a serial cheater and addict, then perhaps a deeper question to ask yourself is why you want someone like that back...I think one of the best things about trying to manifest an SP or an ex back is that eventually, we all go from the obsessive glee of finding a technique that will win the person to learning how to truly love ourselves and feel secure within ourselves alone.  A lot of times, when that happens, we realize the person we just had to have may not be worth it.  These are questions that only you can answer but if your self-love is intact, then you make better, healthier choices in friends and romantic partners.

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Been doing PW for 6 weeks now, haven´t seen any signs of it working » 9/28/2018 4:35 am

BelleFleur
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Angel89 wrote:

UPDATE' I got a text from my PoI after 8 months of _No Contact, asking if I´m in town!  IT happened about an hour after I got so tired of him being stubborn and not responding to PW by reaching out that i decided to forget about him and move on.  

I was actually going to do PW on him one last time just to say goodbye and to tell him thru PW that I wouldnt be telepathically visiting him anymore because of his lack of effort.  And after i made that decision about an hour later, he text me.  There was nothing for 8 months, and then that!  

Congratulations.  It sounds like you truly let go and that created the opening for God to work.  Good luck.
 

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Been doing PW for 6 weeks now, haven´t seen any signs of it working » 9/06/2018 9:10 pm

BelleFleur
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Angel89 wrote:

I dunno!! The thing is doing the PW makes me feel really happy afterwards and I think that's why Ive been doing it so often, however I noticed if I stop doing it, after about 2 days I'll start to feel depressed, and I have to do it again to feel better.  I guess its because subconsciously Im worried about skipping it incase I lose my SP, or I miss feeling happy from doing the technique, I'm not sure.  So should I still stop doing it!?  But on the other hand when I just tried to do it today I felt like I was overwatering a plant if that makes sense_  I got a weird feeling like, this is already done, its pointless spending any more time on him.  But at the same time I feel down from not doing the technique .  so what should I do!)

and Thinking Out Loud 88 im happy youre glad I post it !!!   I think the only way to speed it up is to geneuinely detach from it becos I think most of the time we think we're detached but then really we're not cos we still care enough to ask where is it!?  but I think when we're genuinely detached we're so not bothered anymore, or we're so convinced it's def coming, that we dont even bother to ask where is it !!!! if that makes sense!!

If you're only happy when you're doing PW then you are still attached.  You need to get to the point where although you are confident that your manifestation is already done, you would be equally happy without it.  If you were fully confident, you wouldn't be looking for signs or even asking the question.  Agnes (maybe referencing Neville?) has said that signs follow, they don't precede.  So you need to get to the point where you are just happy with YOU.  I hope that helps.
 

Questions & Answers » Broke NC. Can this be fixed? » 9/05/2018 6:30 pm

BelleFleur
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NO situation is irredeemable...you just have to believe that. 

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men » 9/04/2018 10:08 pm

BelleFleur
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Day 16: I am first best.  I am a priority.  I am loved.  I am secure.  I am desired by men everywhere I go.  I turn heads.  I elicit a reaction.  Men see me.  Men honor me.  Men always come towards me.  Men love to help me even without me asking. 

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Sudden Feeling of Love: could it be from my person? » 9/04/2018 4:46 pm

BelleFleur
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This happened again today! Quote randomly while I was grabbing something off the printer. Oh my goodness it's the most delicious feeling. In my heart I KNOW it's my SP. I just believe he was thinking of me. I just keep sending pure love energy.

Is anyone else getting these sensations?

General Discussion "For Women Only" » Challenge: Changing Beliefs about Men » 8/30/2018 8:07 pm

BelleFleur
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Day 15: I am loved, I am wanted, I am a priority, I put myself first, I am FIRST best in my life.  Men love me.  Men adore me.  Men honor me.  Men are always coming towards me.  I am deeply desired by men.

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